Just Lost a Furry Friend

Steely_Gunz

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I just got the call from my wife that our ferret, Gruntz slipped away over the night. She found him curled up outside his bed on the floor of his cage, gone.

In all honesty, it's probably for the best. Over the last year or so, Gruntz (named so because he would always grunt or chuckle as he nosed around new things) had developed adrenal disease. This is a common fate for ferrets from mills as they fix them at too early of an age and cause testosterone flair up in their later years. This causes them to become aggressive, lose their hair, and have several itchy spots well up on them that they will scratch raw. We found that a mixture of melatonin and ferret vitamins as a couple dashes of children's oral anti-allergy medicine calmed the effects some. He was bald and kinda itchy, but he was himself and not aggressive.

However, over the last few months he had taken a turn for the worse. He was having a harder time making it to the paper where he would relieve himself. he had also developed a noticeable catch in his step as his musculature was starting to weaken. He was still very much active, and loved his medicine time as well as his food (actually all the way up to the day he died), so I didn't want to take him in to have him put down. I wanted nature as well as himself to decide when it was time. I will be honest though, every evening as I put him to bed I would whisper to him to just stay asleep. He didn't have to keep hanging on. Looks like the hard-headed little bastard finally listened:) He is in a better place now.

I got Gruntz on a whim in 2001. It was November, and I had just moved into my first apartment my junior year of college. I had transferred to be with my girlfriend, soon to be fiance, and now my wife;) However, her lifestyle was busy, and I really needed someone to keep me company. At any rate, I decided to go ring shopping in November for a surprise engagement on Christmas. I had some time to kill before i met with the jeweler, so I stopped in at a pet store to look around and play with the animals. There he was. Little heathen jumping and romping with others. I had to take him home.

Over the next several years I gained a college education, a fiance, a new apartment, a house, a wife, and finally a dog. There by my side through it was little Gruntz. I had him with me through every major change in my life.

God rest you, my furry little friend. You were loved.

I sincerely hope that if there is a God, a Creator, a Big Heart that He takes pity on we simple minded animal lovers whose wiring is so crossed that we prefer the company of His furry critter domain over the two legged variety. Keep your choir of angels, even your 72 virgins, just send me to where the good dogs and other great pets go...Hell, maybe none of us are that worthy;)

Thanks for reading, friends.
 
So Sorry to hear about your loss:(

I dread the day when my furry friends leave me.
 
Keep your choir of angels, even your 72 virgins, just send me to where the good dogs and other great pets go.

:thumbup::thumbup:

"There is a land of the living and a land of the dead and the bridge is love, the only survival, the only meaning."

Thornton Wilder
1897-1975, American Novelist, Playwright


Sounds like your buddy Gruntz was well loved.
 
You're a tender-hearted fellow, aren't you? :)

I think it takes a tender heart to appreciate the smaller and furrier joys of life.

I'm sure his was a happy life, full of exploration, dark warm places (ferrets love that), and unexpected discovery. Kindness and love are their own rewards.

Smoke and prayers going up from Virginia.
 
Jake, so sorry for your loss.

I know how much you musta loved the little guy. Seven years is a pretty good run...

Smoke up for your lost one.


Mike :(
 
Thanks so much, guys. You really are making a pretty crumby day a lot better.
 
Sorry to hear about your loss. Just be thankful you had him as a companion and thankful for the times he was with you. Sounds like Gruntz was lucky to have someone that took as great of care of him as you did also.
 
Sincerest condolences. It is always hard to see a friend leave forever. As Old Physics said, "Kindness and love are their own rewards." You and Gruntz made each other's lives better. Cherish the memories, now that he is at peace.
 
All things bright and beautiful,

All creatures great and small,

All things wise and wonderful,

The Lord God made them all.

Peace be with you Jake.
 
:( Very sorry to hear it.

The good thing is, seven years of memories are enough to keep him alive forever. :)

I'm gonna go love on all of our quadrupedal kids now.
 
Sorry to hear about your loss Jake.

My old, best buddy Kingford will play with him and keep him company up there.
 
I'm sorry for your loss, Jake. Sounds like Gruntz was a great little guy, and seven years is not a bad run for a ferret IIRC. And I've no doubt he knew he was loved -- they seem to be good at that.

I'm sure there's a ferret heaven somewhere just full of bad things to eat, fields of carpeting to dig up, expensive leather shoes to chew, toilet paper to shred, garbage cans and glasses of beer to knock over, and little secret hiding places full of fountain pens, car keys, small yet crucial electronic devices and dry-clean-only cashmere scarves. That's my guess, anyway. ;)
 
What Christians call the 'comforter', the holy Spirit or ghost...came to me briefly as I was mourning the loss of my cat, also named Jake. (no relation to thread author) Jake had been with me the drinking years, the sober years, saw me finally on the right road, and was run over by the criminals living next door to me in San Bernardino. He's still there, buried in the backyard. (illegal to do so nowadays)

I too asked the Great Heart that if possible Jake be allowed to pass over, or through to the next level. He was better than a lot of people I know.

I'm sorry for your loss, but glad you had your firend for as long as you did.


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