Use a sharpie to mark the edge, make sure you're removing the sharpie mark and really hitting the apex of the edge which should form a burr that you can feel. Depending on the steel, some take more time to truly hit the apex.
Carbon steels will load up the diamond stones. I've cleaned the stones with soap/water and a scotch brite pad. Diamonds are not necessary on carbon steels. Make sure not to apply very much pressure using diamond stones on carbon steels.