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I've actually done this, to both my Fine (purple hone in blue holder) and EF (white hone in yellow holder). These hones are ceramic. As such, about the only thing that will do it in something-less-than a lifetime, is diamond. The wet/dry sandpaper will be either aluminum oxide (same stuff as the ceramic hones), or silicon carbide (almost the same, in terms of hardness). Either way, the sandpaper won't touch it. On that note, I also use a Spyderco DoubleStuff hone (ceramic) occasionally and, just for grins, I 'tried' the wet/dry sandpaper on it. Makes no impression at all, so far as I can tell.
I flattened my (warped) hones on a Coarse DMT interrupted surface hone. Even then, it took a VERY long time, and added a lot of wear to the DMT. I got it done, but I'm not sure I'd do it again, at least the same way.
The Lansky hones are relatively inexpensive ($10 - $15, give or take). If I were once again facing a warped or otherwise un-flat hone, I'd likely just replace it.
Edit:
Another thing to consider. Lapping any hone can change the way it cuts. With ceramic, this usually means it's less aggressive after the fact. Makes a smoother polishing hone, but it might be slower.
thanks so much for the response, what pisses me off is that it is brand new, I couldn't tell it was warped until after I bought it and threw away the box so I can't return it