Howdy Easyrider, let's see what kind of help I can give... I have a chive (actually the wife has it now) and it is ok, but seems more of a novelty knife for me. The assisted opening is like crack cocaine it is soooo addictive. The steel is AUS-6 and there is a little bit of a recurve to it, which MAY make it tough to sharpen for some. However, the overall size is pretty tiny... think watch pocket.
The Benchmite... don't have one, never even saw one. Sorry, can't help ya there.
Queen's slipjoints... I prefer the D2 ones. They seem to have gotten their QC a lot better than the first run. I have 4 of them and like the jigged cherry delrin and the winterbottom delrin the best. You will probably have to do a little re-profiling with these, but they are pretty nice. I forgot to mention that all four are stockmans, the winterbottom being the Cattle King model... which is hands down my favorite. This knife just screams "USE ME"!!! And I have, and she has taken everything I threw at her.
The Loveless City Knife... a decent stainless steel, but the exact name escapes me for the moment, with nice green micarta handles. It has a very handy blade shape and excellent fit/finish and walk/talk. I personally thought it a little pricey, but hey... that's an individual thing anyway. I don't have one, but have seen and handled one. I would buy one if I could find it cheaper.
I guess my overall choice would be one of the D2 Queens... there are many to choose from, and they certainly look sheeple friendly. Good luck with school... where ya going?