Long overdue update on Stella and Jessica.

Yvsa

Yvsa

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Well some things are just better sort of blurted out and it sickens and embarasses me to have to say this.:(
I have wondered for some time if my daughter Stella was telling me the truth about her medical problems.
I got a Father’s Day card from her with a short letter supposedly telling me about what has been happening in her life after a fairly long hiatus.
Stella used to email me at least once a week and generally a lot more often than that then suddenly one day all the correspondence dried up.
Anyway to make a long story short the medical problems that Stella claimed to have like the terminal liver cancer and a miscarriage when she was younger were flat out right lies; to get attention I suppose.:( :o

Stella has completely wrecked her marriage of nearly 20 years and isn’t taking care of the medical problems she really *does* have.:confused: :grumpy:


Unfortunately she has and did tell me the truth about my granddaughter Jessica. Jessica really did have the surgeries and has all the medical problems I was told she had.
I called and verified what I suspected to be true this morning. I know that a lot of you have been wondering what was going on in the lives of my daughter and granddaughter as have I.

I know everyone here that came to their aid in the form of Smoke, Prayer, books and other gifts were long overdue an explanation and now you have it as I know it.:(
There’s a lot more I could say but now is not the time and this isn’t the place.
[FONT=&quot]I just want to thank all of you who showed the kind of concern that only a few people can show. I am deeply grateful.
Smoke and Prayers for all concerned would be greatly appreciated.
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Hoping there's more to the story and that some of it is good. Going to go light two.




Mike


done.
 
Yvsa , to be misled is a hard thing to accept , especially by a family member .
Assuredley to feign illness is an illness . Denial is part of that . I hope that she gets the help she and her family needs . Stay strong .
 
Yvsa, I'm so sorry. Prayers sent, of course. Prayers especially that this might signal the beginning of a different kind of relationship among you all.

t.
 
This changes nothing for me. Still sending smoke for you all.

I'm sorry for the trouble in your life my friend.

Steve
 
How are Stella and (especially) Jessica doing right now? The last we heard she was barely hanging on. Did those surgeries do the trick?

If you need more smoke, I'm sure that we can find some.
 
Smoke and prayers sent with a heavy heart Edutsi:( But its only heavy for your pain--like Steve said this doesn't change anything: People you love needed prayers, and they were said/sent. And they're said and sent again.
 
Yvsa, my friend:

I had two daughters in a failed marraige with an alcholic woman.

One day when my oldest daughter was 20 years old I got a phone call, Daddy I don't know where I am, come get me. I was a detective and tracked her down in the next state and found her passed out.

In the meantime I learned my daughter just left rehab for alcholisim and drug abuse. I never knew.

I got her admitted into a lovley rehab facility in my state. Then I learned her alcholic mother was going to take her out of the facility. I dropped everything and went to talk her into staying and recovering from her problems. No matter what I said she was going to leave with her mother.

I begged her to stay, to no avail. I even told her if she didn't stay and get well I would be identifying her body in the morgue some day. That is exactly what I did three years later.

Yvsa, despite your daughters problems or cries for attention you still have her. As long as you have her there is hope.

Although I am not a shining example to take advise from when it comes to children.

Thanks, Steve
 
ehh, life is a deception Yvsa

Smoke and prayers rising in the Carolinas this night, may all be reconciled
 
Yuh nSuh? You know...we will do all we can...for them, and for you.


Steve? damn. just, damn.



Be well and safe.
 
Smoke and prayers for everyone, you and Jessica. But Stella needs help and support also. You never know what pushes people. All you can do is love them. Particularly your family.
 
Smoke up for your family Yvsa. You know its alwalys there for you.
 
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