Lost Loved Ones on Christmas

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Well I wasn't anticipating it turning out this way, but I had a very special holiday hike this Christmas. I am from Door County, WI, which is a very small place with some big natural resources.

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One of my favorite places to visit in Door County is Peninsula State Park. It is a 3776 acre park with 8 miles of Green Bay Shoreline. It has many bluffs which are part of the Niagra Escarpment, and the cliffs and views from them are unrivaled. An absolutely beautiful place to enjoy nature in all it's forms.

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The reason this place is so special to me is because of my family ties to the park, specifically with my dad. My dad's name was Johnny Lara Gonzales, and he died in 2001 at the age of 41. I was 18 years old when it happened, and remember it all as if it were yesterday.

He was an avid ice fisherman and outdoorsman. He loved Peninsula State Park, and spent a lot of time there. In 2001, he was ice fishing off the western shore of the park. On his way back home, he went between what is called Welcker's Point, near the Northern tip of the park, and Horseshoe Island on his ATV across the frozen bay. Between the point and the island was a stronger current due to the water being forced through the two bodies of land. The stronger current caused the ice he was traveling on to be thinner, and it was not strong enough to support him and the ATV, and he fell through.

Nobody else was with him at this time, and we can only speculate on how everything unfolded, but I've spent some time trying to relive his final moments. This is what I know...

His body was found 15 feet under water less than 50 feet from shore. The ice was broken in a pattern leading to shore, showing that he was attempting to climb out of the lake onto the ice in a direction heading towards land. In addition to that, his gloves were found on the ice almost directly above where his body was found... Most ice fisherman are taught this trick when they begin venturing across the ice. A good ice fisherman knows that if you fall through the ice and you think you aren't going to make it out of the frozen water, take off your gloves and place them on the ice so that the emergency personnel have an easier time of locating your body. That's some brutal stuff right there.

That's how he died. Doing something he loved, in a piece of this earth that he loved. He never got old, and that's part of his legend...

After he passed away, we decided to bury him in the cemetery located within the park itself. It just seemed right. He spent so much of his life there, he died there, and he is buried there.

Since 2001, I've gone to visit the park many times, and thought of him every time. He loved it there, and I feel him every time I go there. One time, my cousin was snowshoeing in the park and came across a tree that had the initials JG carved in it. He didn't have a single doubt in his mind that it was my dad. That summer I went up to find the tree, and this is what I found...

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It was an amazing sight to behold. We had gone through his stuff, pieced through and distributed his belongings, gone through every photo, and had somehow or another gone through every piece of his life that he left behind. Finding a piece of this world where he left his mark more than 6 years after he passed away was unexpected, and as you can imagine, very emotional.

This Christmas, I made another trek into the park. It was a snowy, wintery day, and it was in my opinion a perfect day to be out in the woods. I started out on my hike heading towards the cemetary to go say hello to the old man...

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As you can see from the images, it was an amazing hike. I have some videos that I will post here when I am done uploading them to youtube, but overall my experience on this hike was just amazing. It was Christmas day, and I just felt as if my father was by my side.

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Very deep, and very beautiful country. Sometimes we have to go out to find we have actually gone in. I am sorry for your loss.
 
Very deep, and very beautiful country. Sometimes we have to go out to find we have actually gone in. I am sorry for your loss.

I appreciate that, Acetylene.

My father's death has taught me a lot about my own life. Our days are numbered, and it's in our best interests to make the best of each and every one of them, just like he did.

It was a great day... bittersweet, ya know?

JGON
 
Thanks so much for sharing your story and for the wonderful photos. What an incredible connection you have to your father; your love for the outdoors is a great legacy to him, and would make any father proud.

Thanks again :thumbup:
 
Thanks so much for sharing your story and for the wonderful photos. What an incredible connection you have to your father; your love for the outdoors is a great legacy to him, and would make any father proud.

Thanks again :thumbup:

Thank you, Walkabout...

It is therapeutic to some degree to write and talk about him. I'm very thankful I have all of you folks that are always willing to lend an ear...

Since his death, my 100% Native American Grandmother has always associated Eagles with my father. I saw several on this hike. Also, the park has an Eagle Bluff, Eagle Tower, Eagle Trail, and Eagle Campground...

Here is a video of me near the water at the base of the cliffs on Eagle Trail, giving a little look around...
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Another one on top of Eagle Tower...

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This was a very heart warming post. One of the best that I've read in a long time. The videos and pictures were excellent. They really make you appreciate the beauty of Door County. I have not visited Peninsula State Park yet. I moved to southern WI 4 years ago so I don't really have an excuse. I grew up hiking the trails around Lake Superior in northern WI and the landscape looks similar.

Thanks for sharing your day.
 
So sorry for your loss brother. I lost my dad in 08, and I miss him every day. Glad you had a good hike and from the pics, I can see why you and your dad love this place...Jim
 
JGON, such beautiful countryside & so serene. I can't imagine the gamut of emotions you must have everytime you go into that park. Knowing this was one of your father's favorite places & to know he is still there each time you go, this has to be a special place to visit & to recall the memories you shared with him. The area has to be as stunning in the summer as it does now. Thanks for taking us along & sharing some personal feelings & experiences this time of year. Sally & I hope you had a great Christmas with your family and friends.
Be safe.
 
Touching story JGon, thanks for sharing. Lots of nice photos there, looks like an awesome place to connect with the natural world.
 
Sorry for your loss man.

Getting out in nature keeps me grounded too, nothing beats it:thumbup:

Thank you for sharing.
 
I think Dean Martin actually died on Christmas Day. I've often wondered what that day is like for his family.

I've sometimes wondered about you. I'm sorry for your pain. From what I've read here, I think that you have done an excellent job of living a life that would make your father proud. From what you have posted here he was a man who lived correctly the life of an upstanding man, and I believe that.

It was most unfortunate that he was lost to you when you were so young. But, at the same time, reading the above it is evident that his legacy was properly transmitted to you, and you are in the position to carry that on for your family. This, in my mind, alone is extraordinary good fortune for you and yours.

Well done, and God rest your father's soul.
Also, nice to have made your acquaintance here on the forum.

Merry Christmas to you.

pete
 
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I can only imagine the emotions that you felt on your hike. I'm sure he watches over you and is proud of you.

Thanks for sharing this with us. Great pictures of a beautiful area. I haven't been in Door County in years but will make a point of it next summer on my way to the Porkies!
 
Absolutely fantastic pics. Having never been to any of the Great Lakes, I am always amazed to see images that show some perspective of of their size. They are truly inland seas!
 
Very touching...thanks for sharing JGON. As I sit here days away from 41, I've spent a few trips to hostile territory with the biggest fear of leaving my son fatherless at a young age. Did I teach him all I could? Did raise him to make the right choices? Did I instill the love and respect of the outdoors? The greatest fears of a father…

I can see your father did extremely well with you and would have been (and is) very proud of you. Don't mourn the loss, celebrate the memories; may the eyes of the eagles keep watch over you and your family. I hope you and your family had a Merry Christmas and that you look forward to a great New Year,

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