looks is a subjective thing what i like you might not.
i would get a SOCOM elite vs a std SOCOM they have better locks and are imho a little more heavy duty but they are a wee bit thicker.
as far as durability/performance a SOCOM elite would do most anything a folder needs to, as would a std SOCOM.
i have a mini-SOCOM elite and a SOCOM elite and a std SOCOM FWIW, all are good knives, i rarely carry mine anymore i prefer tip up carry and they dont come like that (mine arent anyway).
the CQC emersons are great knives too, and the spyderoc military is a classic, imho the lock on a SOCOM elite is better than a millies though, probably better than the liner lock EKIs too, now a CQC12 is a frame lock and is imho head and shoulders better than a zero tolerance, SOCOM or SOCOM elite, or millie, FWIW.