Mitzi

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Our tabby cat, Mitzi, died today in my wife's arms while on the way to the vet.

She was 20 years old, remarkable for a cat. I got the cat along with a job, degree and an apartment in 1986, so I've spent half my life with her. Mitzi was a stray, from the litter next door- the people just would not spay their animal, and my girlfriend & I took in one of the kittens.

She rewarded the chance we took on her with a lot of love. Mitzi was a good cat, in every way. She really was.



In her long life, she saw a lot of change, and lived many places. We went through Hurricane Andrew together in Miami (Kendall) in 1992. That night, as the home was being pulled apart, we hid together in a closet. I remember the low pressure caused my ears to pop, like in a plane. Probably hers too.

Mitzi went through a few homes and different "mothers" over the years, accepting change with good cat grace. When I lived alone, she was the one who would greet me after a long day at the office. It was me and her for a while.

5, 10, 15 years flew by, like turning the pages in a book. Many things changed. I got married and Mitzi got a Siamese brother along the way, so she wasn't alone anymore either.

We moved to the Gulf Coast to get away from the pressures in Miami. Mitzi was 15 by the time we moved here, old for a cat but she never showed it.

When Hurricane Ivan struck in 2003, we evacuated and the cats were boarded at a vet where they'd be safe. Shelters don't allow pets. With a black marker, I wrote her name, our number and a word about her disposition on the cat carrier. I covered the writing with clear tape so if it got wet you could still read it.

We got them back eventually, though the house was heavily damaged (another story). Mitzi didn't mind sleeping on the plywood floors, and when plaster dust from the demolition and rebuilding got in her fur, she didn't mind.

We'd wash her and she even liked the warm water. A cheerful person.

Part of me thought she'd live forever. She made it to 20, a fact I proudly pointed out to visitors in our new home. Mitzi sure slept a lot, but you would too if you were 96, her human-age equivalent.

Last month she started looking skinnier. We took her to the vet, thinking diabetes or something. Nope. Bloodwork was OK. Nothing was physically wrong with her. An ear infection, but the medicine the doc gave us cleared it up.

This morning she was wheezing a little. She hadn't eaten last night, either. I couldn't get her to drink, she just wanted to lay down. We called; made an appointment to take her in at 10:00 this morning.

Mitz almost made it.

When we got in the car, my wife went to put the carrier in the back. Somehow I knew. "You'd better hold her," I said. She kept the cat with us in the front seat.

We were almost at the vet when she curled up on the towel and left us.

The vet put her on an examining table and we said our goodbyes. I've never lost a pet... Mitzi's fur was still as soft as a rabbit's. We petted her for a few minutes and finally made the cremation arrangements.

I left her cat carrier there. You can donate them; someone with a kitten might need one. Mitzi wouldn't need a carrier any longer.

On it was the writing I had put the day before the hurricane. Her name, our phone number and the word "lovable."

She was that.





Thanks for listening.
Mike

No smoke for her spirit, please, unless you love cats and want to. In lieu of this, if possible, pet a cat. They give us so much, they really do.
 
My condolances! The loss of a pet is tough, it's not like a child, but close.
Smoke from Boise.

Dick
 
That's so sad, Mike:(
I'm so sorry for your loss. Animals that live with us are every bit as "human" as we pretend to be. The only difference is that they wear their emotions right out there on their sleeve. They are living, breathing mile markers of our lives. I know that when little Gruntz, my ferret, takes his last draw of air I will be crushed. Not because I wish he would stay longer. I know all animals must go before us. He is a living little history book of everything I'd done with my life in the last 4 or 5 years. I picked the little goober up on a whim the day I went to go pick out my wife's engagement ring. It was the November after 9/11 that made me want to make sure I married this girl. I brought him home and that Dec when i popped the question I had started my family in my ratty little apartment. He was my roomate in a pretty boring life. Now, he's a little older, a little slower, but still loves to pick on this bigger "little" brother the dog. I know that I have a day of heart ache like yours coming sooner or later. I dread it, but charish my time with little Gruntz.
Mitzi may be gone, but I know that if there is a God up there with any compassion our furry friends may go before us, but i believe in my heart of hearts that on the day you walk west, after you're done shaking hands with grandparents, aunts, and uncles, there on a cushy chair will be ol' Mitzi curled up and full of youthful viggor keeping your spot warm.
I'm not a people person. I don't really like them all that much. However, i love animals. It is through my animals that i remember compassion, loyalty, and unconditional love. If only we could be as human as our pets.
Smoke going up for you, friend.

Jake
 
I find losing my kitties more heartbreaking than losing humans. My heart goes out to you and I hope your kitty is with mine in wherever it is that animals go to be rewarded for bringing so much love and solace to us humans:thumbup:
 
I'll share this with both of my girls (PeePot and Bitsy) when I get home.

I had a Mitzi once...also lovable. My last girl to leave was Runway...a chocolate seal point siamese.

I feel your pain...and Smoke and Song will certainly be included for Mitzi, your wife and yourself.

They come back eventually you know...very often with different color fur, sometimes even the opposite sex...but they come back.
 
Nasty said:
I'll share this with both of my girls (PeePot and Bitsy) when I get home.

I had a Mitzi once...also lovable. My last girl to leave was Runway...a chocolate seal point siamese.

I feel your pain...and Smoke and Song will certainly be included for Mitzi, your wife and yourself.

They come back eventually you know...very often with different color fur, sometimes even the opposite sex...but they come back.

I think so too!

Nasty is a big cat lover and has really sweet cats by the way!!!:thumbup:
 
Man, I feel your pain Mike. Pets get into your soul I think. You guys were so good to me when Lady died. I hope you are OK today. I'll be thinking of you and Mitzi when I get home. I give old Sir Clyde Pickles a pet for you. He has taken Lady's death worse than any of us. They were best friends. They would lay together in the sun, boxer and alleycat just as friendly as you please. Pickles used to stalk Lady. Then when she got close he'd jump up and wrap around her neck like a tiger trying to tear the throat out of something. Pretty hilarious. Lady was so peaceful. She'd let him finish without any reaction at all. Then they'd lay down together and snuggle up just as friendly as ever. I miss her. I really feel for you Mike, but she's in a better place now they say. Its hard.
 
It is simply stunning how much emotion one can invest in a pet. We had one make it to 18, and we still talk about her - "Kit would like this."
 
Thomas Linton said:
It is simply stunning how much emotion one can invest in a pet. We had one make it to 18, and we still talk about her - "Kit would like this."

We do the same thing. My last 3 cats all died at 15 15 and 17. I actually have 2 goats over the age of 10 right now too. I think my Donkey is getting close to being 15, but they are long lived.
 
My condolences. She looks like two cats my family has taken in, you can never own a cat, really. The one, Miss Beauty, we called her Ms B, was a hell raiser. Her son, Sneakers, looked just like her, only fatter. Veterinarian told my father that B didn't need to be spayed, she was too young. About two months later, wham, a litter of kittens. Remember seeing her dragging a jackrabbit, not quite dead, across our big field, about three acres. She'd go forward two feet, the rabbit would drag her back one foot. She finally got tired of messing with it, and broke its neck. Several months later, saw her kittens, who were living under the hen house, toss a rabbits head out. I guess everybody needs a hobby... She stopped coming around about two or three years ago. She was a bitch on wheels until her last few years. I think she was about 15 years old. Her son is still kicking. Old, fat and full of piss and vinegar. His favorite pasttime was eating. He'd get breakfast at our house, go down the hill to the neighbors house for brunch, go to the other neighbors house for lunch, somewhere else for supper, somewhere else for dinner etc. Needless to say, he was a big boy. Disappeared for one winter, found out one of our neighbors, took "their" cat inside for the season. He would always scream and holler when we brought him in during blizzards, or to get him in the a/c during the summer on those scorching days. Go figure. He's still going strong, even though his brother died about ten years ago. Even at his old age, he still teases our two dogs, and gets severely teased by our black cat. Lucky for him, they don't kill cats ;).


The only cats I've ever loved, old guy will probably just walk off into the sunset.
 
Thank you for the heart written story.

When my cat Jake died, he was in my arms, and I asked God if it were possible, to please let him be a human being the next time around.




munk
 
Speaking of hunting cats:

Ms HD had a cat when we first met, Ashes. He lived at her parents house and when she went away to college the first weekend she came home he killed a squrrel by breaking it's neck and came and dropped it at her feet. She had her mom cook it up and ate it in front of him.

The Foo was a great hunter cat. A little long haired short legged thing but a great sportscat. One summer I kept noticing creek chubs (little fish) in the yard without heads. Where were they coming from? Then one day I noticed the Foo down on the creek bank fishing them. I guess the heads were her favorite part.

One thing I have always thought a contradiction: That often so called cat hating men are often big macho hunters and stuff. I could never understand this because cats embody the independant spirit of the hunter more than most other pets.
 
Nasty said:
They come back eventually you know...very often with different color fur, sometimes even the opposite sex...but they come back.

I agree. But sometimes it takes a while to recognize them.
 
I'd have wished it the other way around munk...would want to come back as a sibling to my cats.

After Mitzi, I had Peaches...pure white and stone deaf. I'll try to find pictures and scan them if I do, but they were pre-digital. I used to knock on the floor to get her attention. Guess I am hooked on having girl cats.

Runway (Mostly Chocolate Seal Point Siamese)
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PeePot (Perhaps Russian Blue)
PeePot.jpg


Bitsy (Muted Calico)
Bitsy.jpg
 
I am so sorry. I lost my cat on Thanksgiving 2 years ago, and since I was single at the time he was my best friend. I know your friend is at rest now. Perhaps one day you will again find it your heart to give another animal a good home that it wouldn't have otherwise had.
I know what you mean about the soft fur. I have a tabby that looks a like Mitzi, and her fur is so thick and warm. Losing an animal can be harder than losing a close friend or relative because their innocence and affection.
 
Mike -

Sorry to hear about your loss. The epitaph you posted here was incredibly touching -- I have lost quite a few precious "fuzzy children" over the years and it still hurts like hell every time they go. Your memories of your cat touched me, deeply. Thanks for sharing.

Side note -- you must have been pretty close to me. I rode Ivan out at mainland ground zero. Scariest stuff I have seen in a while. Where you at?
 
Thank you, guys. I appreciate the words.

The survivor, our Siamese, has been calling for her. They've never been apart. He's a Seal point with thin fur, hates the cold, and always bunks with her to stay warm. Like many Siamese, he is very vocal. Very.

I suppose its better this way. If she had passed while we were at work... the Siamese is pretty smart- I'm just glad he didn't have a dead "sister" for company for half a day.

Nasty, thanks for posting the pix. Runway, eh? Cats are among the best people.

Two people that hated cats- Napolean and Hitler. Nuff said.


Thanks again,
Mike
 
I'll think of Mitzi , you and yours when I send up smoke. I'll also give Guinevere and Timmorn some extra scratches behind the ears tonight.

Frank
 
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