Mnandi at a funeral

[Davor]

I've been a BF member for nearly two years. Last week I buried my older brother, 40 years old. This will sound stupid, but I held the CR mnandi for days and used it to cut the roses for his funeral. My fingers rubbed the wood for days and I opened the blade hundreds of times to relieve my own tensions. It was just nice to look at the wood and it was smooth to open. Its priceless and I still find myself holding it to handle the stress. I know its just a knife, its what I needed to handle during some tough times. Cherish the time with your family...

 

[BBQ BOY]

Oh no!! I am very very sorry to here about your loss. my brother's mean a lot to me but we are not as close as we should be. A lot of resentment has been built over over the years between the three of us.
Your words is encouraging to me to try and break the ice between us to mend some old wounds.
Again, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

 

[Shrodinger's Cat]

tragic, not much to say other than sorry for your loss...40 is too soon

 

[Davor]

Thanks BBQ. Trust me, money and any other issues is not worth it. We all have issues in life, but when someone close is gone forever, you begin to question yourself if you were close enough with them. Remember the good times and hold on to that. The mnandi was shipped to me a few days prior to his death and I had to travel with one folder, so I picked a reliable one that was small. With these tough days, it was the perfect size and reliable knife. It was something nice to handle and look at it when everything around wasn't.

 

[Tarponfly49]

Fairly new here, but lurk a lot. I'm sorry for your loss. I too, went through a similar tragedy....being an avid collector of watches, I sat winding, drinking, and listening...alone...to my panerai Tick... There is something to be said about those nice things (reeve knives, nice watches, good scotch, etc) it seems to give a person a sense of comfort, something that is a dependable constant in this crazy world. Whether it be the ticking of an intricate machine, or the perfect opening of a razor sharp blade with perfect tolerances....it seems to be guaranteed....and it is something so comforting in times when things you previously accepted as guaranteed has left you wanting...

 

[aznpos531]

I'm terribly sorry for your loss. I'm sure the Mnandi came to you as a friend in your time of need.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.

 

[johnhere]

Davor, sorry for your loss.

 

[lisantica]

Davor, may your brother rest in peace.
I read your comments about how you felt some comfort having your knife by your side. For some reason, knives have that essence for me as well. Take care and my deepest condolences.

 

[DallasSTB]

The pain of your loss is evident in you writing, Davor. My prayers are with you and your family in this time of heartache. And I completely understand the comfort the Mnandi provides. The strength of the metal, contrasted by the warmth of the inlays, bound together with precision from the soul of the maker can provide secure respite during a turbulent time.

God bless you, my friend.

 

[Professor]

Very sorry, Davor. I hope that your Mnandi, albeit new to you, can forever be a reminder of the good times you and your Brother had.

Many have said that CRK knives are simply tools, nothing more. I (and Dallas apparently ) am of a minority who believe that they are much more; that they are also a form of functional art and a physical symbol of perfection that Chris originally intended each and every one of them to be.

To me, CRK knives will always be more than just knives. Perhaps yours can always carry special meaning for you also.

Prof.

 

[fionafa]

My condolences, Davor, for the loss of your brother. At 40 myself, your reminder to cherish time spent with siblings and family is well received; thank you.

You couldn't pick a classier tool to help with any preparations, and my Mnandi has also served as a familiar touchstone over the years.

Wishing you whatever comfort you can find at this trying time.

 

[Geode]

Davor,

Sorry for you loss, you brother was quite young. Not strange at all to take solace in handling the Mnandi. Hang on to that one.

 

[zyhano]

my condolences for your loss. I hope you find the strength to give it a place in your life

 

[김원진]

condolences, i hope the feelings from everyone who sympathize and empathize help you feel somewhat better

 

[Davor]

I appreciate everyone's comments. Its very helpful. I found out it was a massive seizure that caused his death. He didn't take his meds for the seizures. I'm back to work and beginning my routine. Thank you everyone.