Thanks for posting. Tom was/is a good friend of the family. When my grandparents retired to the Yaak Valley in 1972, Tom & Nancy lived right next door to them. At the time, Tom rode the rodeo circuit, and the stories Nancy shared with us made me wonder how on earth he was even still mobile. He trapped & hunted, and walked miles every day. For his age, he's doing very well.
It's a small world: I had no idea Tom & Nancy were featured on
Mountain Men. In 2015, we were on a family vacation in Downieville, California, and we ran into a couple who were from Libby, Montana. (I lived in Libby from 1984-85.) I mentioned that my grandmother had lived in the Yaak Valley, and the guy says, "oh, yeah, up where Tom & Nancy Oar live." I was absolutely stunned - I hadn't talked to Tom or Nancy for at least 25 years or more, and I run into a guy here in Northern California who knew the Yaak Valley and the Oars.
I called Tom when we got back home, and we talked for a while about all that's happened for the least quarter century. He even remembered the time that I saw a hat he'd made out of a skunk pelt, with the tail sticking straight up. (How he skinned the skunk without rupturing the scent glands I'll never know.) I cradled it in may arms, and held it so it looked real. I took it back to my grandmother's house, knocked on the back door, and told my Grandmother that a critter was hit by a car. She thought it was real, slammed the door, and cussed at me, Tom, and anyone else within earshot.
Tom mentioned that the show producers did like to add a little more drama to their filming. He & Nancy are - and always were - so laid back and easygoing that I was actually surprised that the producers wanted them on the show.
~Chris