Bob isn't being rude, he is being direct. How many times a WEEK do you think we find requests like yours?
If you don't plan on becoming part of the community....you are not welcome here....that isn't rude either, but it is patently direct.
Best Regards,
STeven Garsson
I have viewed these forums for some time but only recently joined, I'm not a paying member as paying for membership is still a choice not an obligation. I was under the, obviously deluded, impression that forums were a platform in which people with a shared interest could exchange ideas and information. I had no idea that asking a question or requesting advice would be frowned upon such an extent that daring to do so might result in being informed that I would be unwelcome on the forum, unless of course I paid a fee for the privilege.
I have never encountered such an elitist attitude in a free forum. Fortunately I have viewed enough posts here to know that the behaviour exhibited in this thread is the exception rather than the rule. The vast majority of members seem more than happy to answer queries people may have - free of charge.
I am also surprised that some members feel they are being inundated by people asking questions, I don't believe Nicole directed her question at anyone in particular, no one had an obligation to respond, if you find replying such a hassle why not simply ignore the post altogether?
How welcoming and friendly she must have found this forum! I'm sure such attitudes will inspire others to feel comfortable about joining and engaging in forum discussions.
I would understand the point made in respect of seeking information for commercial purposes if Nicole has been requesting information from members on a regular basis, I quite agree she ought to pay however, if this isn't the case, I think she did not deserve the 'patently direct' response she unfortunately received. It doesn't matter how you dress it up, it was rude and discourteous and I wonder how the members who reacted that way would feel if they encountered that type of attitude after asking a question on a free forum.
I do hope to receive a barage of outrage that a non-paying member who has only written two posts, has been so bold as to comment on the behaviour of fee paying members. Who do I think I am? What right do I have? Incidentally, if any moderators think I am out of line, feel free to ban me, it's no loss to me, I didn't pay to join.