I have had this same problem and its quite common when taking apart a Hinderer XM. First, I have used CRK grease and you need barely any if any at all as it just doesnt seem to work well when I used it on my Hinderers. The teflon washers are so slick that you really dont need any lube at all. The XM is a different design than a Sebenza, so different designs call for different things.............As for the off center blade, as I said, this is common when re-assembling an XM. First, put everything together and Do Not tighten the handle scale screws ( 3 of em ). Tighten the pivot very tight. Usually the blade is uncentered at this point. Then push the blade to the opposite side it needs to go and begin tightening the handle screws starting with the one closest to the pivot, then the middle one, then finally the end one, all the while holding the blade to the opposite position. When all is tightened, you should now see the blade centered. If its not, just loosen the 3 handle screws and redo the above. Now, slightly loosen the blade pivot to your desired tension and wala..........your good to go. Rob will tell you the same thing as he is the one who helped me years ago when I asked the same question.