On the 26th Day of Xmas, My True Love Gave To Me

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They're going to Church in the City 40 miles away. Thank goodness. Watch the truck fill with Mother in Law, baby, 4 and 8 year old, and Wife. Wave bye bye. Wife comes back in for the left behind item she almost forgot-

"Now, you'll get some peace and quiet."
That sounded good to me. It would take them over three hours, and probably four or five. So I started a video game and killed dragons.

A little over an hour later my Wife's Pickup Truck pulls into the drive. The kids reach the house first. I wait. Soon, my Wife walks through the door.

"What happened?"
"Accident"
She looked at me. "Everyone's OK but the truck is bad."
"How bad?"
"Bad."

This is the story I recieved; She was driving 55 mph. While going down a slight hill, the truck encountered black ice and started to slide. She did not hit the brakes, and tried to steer it through. Then she did what sounded right to many but almost never is; she put it in four wheel drive. Now, four wheel drive is great. But often in bad ice I'll keep it it two wheel, because unless you have vicous (sic?) coupling, the two differentials fight and twist the vehicle. If you are not sliding already you can be in four wheel drive. But during a slide, never introduce such a change. Well, who knows? I'm just guessing. She may have wrecked anyway. But the truck lost the road, went sideways across the other lane, over a ditch and into a Rancher's cedar posts. They don't use Cedar for fence post because its weak.

A truck comes by, having seen it all, and the man kindly offers help. My wife is shook up and does not think to ask for his name and lic. AFter verifying everyone is OK, Baby and Mother in Law too, they start back home. Soon, a State Patrol vehicle is in view along the road, apparently talking to a gal who also flew her car into the farmland. The lady was crying, and my wife did not wish to disturb them. That's great as far as compassion goes, but she lost her chance to have independent verification of the accident and road conditions and left the door open for the insurance company to say NO.

Snatching guilt from the jaws of innocence. I can't figure out how two grown women could fail to get the essentials.

To put this in perspective, though, it was myself, without any ice visible for months, who one fine Spring morning backed the truck into a PARKED Van....

At least she had Mother Nature to blame.

I don't know what's going to happen. Maybe it's a total. It still drives. Not really a Pickup any more.... more like an SUV

I keep seeing my two year old, Baby Keith, strapped into the seat my Wife diligently insists he wear, with straps crossed and proper, safe and wondering, eyes wide with the truck against the fence.

My wife is on the phone to her brother. "It's really bad, crashed and bent."

"Yeah," I say, loud enough for both of them to hear, "It's probably my truck now."



munk
 
as a man who is not immune to cracking a car (like a pillar for example) i can attest to how lousy a situation this can be.

sorry Munk.

:(
 
I am so very glad your family is all right.

Stuff can be fixed or replaced.

You just had a merry christmas. Congratulations, Friend.
 
Nothing scarier than hitting ice like that. I wouldn't worry about the insurance. I have had a few crashes where the police didn't officiate and the insurance company still paid me.

I remember going across a bridge once. As soon as I hit it I knew I was screwed. I'd slide one way and turn the wheel just a tiny bit to right it, then it would slide the other way. I was really nervous cause I was in heavy traffic and it was gonna be a multi car. Finally I got off the bridge and hit the interstate again which was dry. I looked beside me and the motorist gave me the thumbs up. He'd been watching me struggle to keep it under control and I think he was glad I didn't slide into him ;) Haven't always been that lucky though.

Glad all your minions are ok!
 
Glad they're safe, Munk. Can't comment on her driving skills (haven't driven in sub-zero stuff), but she's a good mother to put him in that chair even if he hates it.
 
2005 will be better. Glad all are safe.

Scot (2004 record: 2.5 crashes, 2 stolen cars)
 
BruiseLeee said:
I backed into a parked car once. :( :footinmou


If it makes you all feel better, I'll admit to driving into the side of a building. I was even sober.
 
Oh, I have SO been right where you are at my friend. It will all work out in the end. Glad no one was hurt, or that she didn't slide into something other than a mailbox. You should be OK on the insurance. People don't slide big vehicles into ditches and mailboxes without reason.

Good luck and hang in there!

Regards,

Norm
 
Glad to hear all are safe, Munk.

Stuff can be replaced. Maybe the friendly gentleman will find you.

What's important is that everyone's OK. A truck is just a truck.

Nam
 
Quite a story... sorry to hear all that. If it makes you feel any better, in 1999/2000 I learned a valuable yet expensive lesson: snow, 17" wheels and antilock brakes DO NOT MIX!!! I might've been the first guy in US to have totalled an Audi S4, the new version they just started bringing to the States.
 
Vehicles are easily replaced. Family members are not.

Life is precious. You were fortunate in your misfortune.

I've lost people, vehicles, weapons, money & homes. I only miss the people.

Ad Astra

P.S. And Munk- CONGRATS ON YOUR POST #6,000!
 
You're right, Ad, you're right.

A Sea of stuff races by and you try and hold on. You want the stuff, the stuff is important. And then you lose someone you love, and it all changes; 'if only'.



I think there are worse 6000th posts than agreeing with you, Ad.

and I like your byline very much.


munk
 
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