Originally posted by thekuntawman:
hello, nice to meet you.
i feel sorry for any pinoys who does not have pride in his own culture, or any person who has no pride. what this does is prove the western powers strength over the pilipino, that he can left his country and 100 years later, the pilipino still looks down to his own culture.
i hope that you can just accept that your parents are one of those pilipinos who was brought up to look down to there countrymen and now they really dont care about what goes on over there. all you have to tell me was that you are from manila, because many pilipinos from there who relocated to the u.s. have that same attitude. i am willing to bet that your family does not send money home...but, for some people it is hard to have pride in a country who is being run by currupted people for more than 500 years. when pilipinos come here and get rich, the least they can do is help there family at home take care of themself, and to teach there kids to do the same thing when they get old already.
back to the fighting arts. i can understand why your dad said that you cannot find arnis here like in the philippines. that is almost true. but there are so many teachers who are here and teaching like they teach at home. the problem is if you want to feed your family, you have to teach it the way people here in the u.s. want to learn it, so people change. mr. ernesto presas in 1988 told to me he would never teach a seminar or videos like remy, he even has a separate set of learning for foreingers and pilipinos. today, i hear that he is now using videos, books and seminars all over canada and the u.s., where in 1988 he refused some people who came to his place because they were not humble. many teachers in the p.i., if you quit, they will not take you back. but here, students will quit and when they came back you need the money, so you take them.
in the philippines, you can take your time and show techniques slowly, and make them do them 1,000 times before you go to the next one. here, you will not have any students if you do it that way. in the philippines, when you learn your numbers, like 1-12, you might learn them one or two at a time, then it takes you almost 4 to 5 months or longer to learn all 12. not here. you get 1-12 then all the counters, then variations, then disamrings all in one day.
in the philippines your teacher will _make_ you practice or you can get punished. here, when you complete your certain number of seminars and can show it back to the teacher what you learned, you will become certified, even if you suck. i saw an ad from vunak in a magazine last month, he will certify you in ONE WEEKEND!!!! never in the p.i., like they say, "only in america". in the philippines a teacher is to careful if a guy who sucks will represent him, unless he is famous. this is why every time a man with many students or he is popular goes to the philippines, he can find a "master" in a barrio somewhere with a style nobody heard of it before, and this guy will certify him. but if he was from the philippines instead, the old man would not give it to him.
in the philippines other teachers challenge each other or they have there students fight each other. you KNOW they dont do that here. i have been here in california for 2 years, and everybody i have sparred with are karate, jujitsu, judo, kung fu or tae kwon do. why? because they had to fight to get there black belt, so they are not scared to fight.
now, i am not saying you cannot find good philippine martial art here in the u.s. it is just not the same way. what city are you in? i recommend the best popular ones to find are doce pares, balintawak, and pekiti tirsia. if you choose that, 9 out of 10 you wont go wrong. if you are in new york, try bakbakan also or sayoc style.
i disagree with your dad that philippine martial arts dont work, because if you are in a fighting base style, you cant go wrong. karate was fine for 1960s, but today you have to find one that keeps up with the times to get a good one.
email me, i would like to talk to you: thekuntawman@yahoo.com