I am not sure where you are located, but I will assume that you are in the USA. One of the first places I would look if I were you would be
West Coast Shaving. there are two good quality brands that are often suggested to a new wet shaver
Merkur and
Edwin Jagger. When I started I went with the Edwin Jagger 89L DE razor, not overly aggressive and very easy to learn with. Don't rule out vintage Gillettes though, the Tech line is a mild razor and can be picked up cheap at flea markets and at online auctions.
The next big one is blades. Everyone's face and skin is different so it is best to buy a sample package. It will contain a number of different blades to try, usually 5-10 of each brand. from West Coast shaving I would suggest
this one you get a package of every blade they offer totaling 120 blades for $32, not much more than a package of 5 cartridge blades. There are literally 100s of blades out there so you will be able to find the one that works for you if you take the time to try them all.
Brush time. I would steer you towards a decent badger brush. Look at best badger or better and expect to pay $40 or more. You could go with a boar brush, and they are good, they just need to get broken in first to soften up. In the boar line look towards the Omega line, they are cheap and great performers for the price.
Finally soaps, it is hard to suggest a soap to someone because there are so many factors to look at, scent, moisturizing ease of lather, and so on. Creams are the same way. If pressed to give a soap or cream suggestion I would have to go with Proraso. It is a good performer and easy to make a good lather with so a great starting point to hone your skills. The scent isn't perfumey and makes me think of the barber shop I use to go to as a kid, but it isn't for everyone.
So that should give you a hand wading into the wet shaving world. there will be someone along shortly to praise the Merkur razors, I don't have any experience with them so I can't say good or bad about them. Enough people like them so they can't be bad.
If I am wrong about where you are located and you are in Canada like my self there are 2 players up here in the wet shaving world,
Fendrihan and
Rasage Poulin
I forgot to mention my standby answer to new wet shavers, go to youtube and search the user Mantic59, you will get all the information you need to have a good experience wet shaving from his videos. He covers techniques as razors, blades, lather, pretty much everything you would need to know.:thumbup: