Jesse,I'll not beleaguer the points of this thread which knifenut and Sep have.As they've taken the time to post excellant info.on this subject.Just read and work on their advise.
Now,I wonder about your stones.You stated Arkansas stones of coarse,medium and smooth.Those are really fine, X-fine and XX-fine and are slow metal removers taking more time.Requiring more strokes allowing for more chances of angle change.2)Are these stones flat? Stones over time,espically old handed down family stones can be wavy or dished.Which are not conducive to efficient knife sharpening.They must be smoothed up and flat.If this is not the case then proceed w/ patience.If you dont feel patient that day put this away till another day.If you suspect the stones are wavy, go to your hardware store and get one thats not.A Norton med. or med.fine India oil stone will be of good quality and very flat as well as economical.Some of the guys here are faster learners.But it took me years to get good at free hand sharpening and that was before this forum was thought of.Just keep trying every other day or so and on different knives in a quiet shop/garage listening to the sounds the scooting blade makes.We'll be standing by for updates.Good luck.DM