Hum...there is only one on the market I'm aware of but I haven't tested it yet.
The ones I've tested are the Sawyer bottles one with the filter and the other with the filter/purifier. Drinking (or sucking) from the filter model isn't bad, using the purifer model about rips you lips off trying to get a drink. But they work. But the bottles are not SS.
I have tested using a 40 oz Nalgene wide mouth and I use the Steri Pen with it. It meets most of your criteria, SS, (not a filter), & Purifier. The nice thing about the Nalgene system is you can boil H20 inside of it and not ruin anything.
Okay, here it is...this has not been tested by myself so I cannot give you a first hand review but Seychelle makes a SS bottle and filter system. Do a Google Search for Seychelle. Dig around in their on-line store and you'll find several variations of their SS bottles and filters.
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