If you're concerned about not applying enough pressure, it's very likely you're applying too much. Very, very light pressure is necessary for a fine edge, especially on narrow ceramic hones, and even lighter on the corners of triangular ceramic rods or on round rods. The tandem combination of a very hard hone and a vary narrow contact area will focus pressure against the edge, which can do more damage than good (rolling or chipping) if the touch is even slightly too heavy.
Also, if the edge is very dull to begin with, you might need a more aggressive hone (diamond or CBN rods for the SM, for example) to reset the edge and fully apex it. Then use the ceramics with a very, very light touch to refine it. If your concern over pressure has arisen due to very slow progress in seeing any improvement, the edge may be too dull to fully restore with the ceramics alone.
As a thumbrule for pressure, I like to imagine I'm just brushing dust off the rods with the knife's edge; if pressure is any heavier than is needed to do literally that, it's too heavy.
David