I believe that, generally speaking, the denser the wood the better it will hold up under use. Cocobolo is a very dense wood with only desert ironwood and perhaps lignum vitae being moreso. Ebony is also a rather dense wood, closely approaching the density of cocobolo and lignum vitae, dependent upon the exact species. But it also should hold up quite well. Quince I know nothing about.
I've been looking for an indepth wood density chart I used to have. You can find a few on the 'net but most are very far from being complete. If I find it, I'll edit and update my post.