Well, if there weren't buyers there wouldn't be any sellers, therefore no money to be made by eBay, so Ebay does make the money off of the buyers. I'm strictly a buyer and have 1286 feedbacks at this point, so they've made alot off of me.
It took a while, but I think ebay FINALLY figured that out. They have changed a LOT in the last few years mostly in favor OF buyers.
I was outright defrauded and furnished all the necessary documentation to ebay and they did NOTHING! The seller re-listed the item I returned for a refund, kept my money, and sold it again!
The few times I was ripped off, the seller simply lied about it, gave me "retaliatory" negative feedback (supposedly against ebay rules) and they did NOTHING about that either. I always tried to work it out before leaving NEGATIVE feedback, but was not always successful.
Now sellers no longer have that capability. Also, they encode buyer ID's so you can't communicate unless you are the seller. Members used to be able to contact one another by requesting contact info.
PayPal became so profitable....ebay bought it a while back. That is why EVERY auction has to offer it.
BG42 I feel a lot like you I think there are some games being played on the bidding. Either the ole Brother-in-law is helping out or has a close friend helping out. I just womder how they are getting around the having to pay with Pay Pal situatuion?
Sellers, if using someone to raise the bid price, will NOT hold the bidder to buy, should they have high bid. They eat the listing fees or possibly get a re-list from ebay.
Another thing ebay did was to "refresh" ratings because so many sellers were less than 100% it was hurting sales!
I've only been a "buyer" myself, so I don't know all the latest changes they have made affecting sellers. Some long time sellers i've known were quite upset by some of them.