RIP Doc, Collie, Family member, Best friend.

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Doc came into our lives in early June of 1996. We picked him out of a litter of puppies because of all the collie pups there Doc seemed to be the most docile and loveable. Boy were we right. We named the puppy Doc after Doc, one of the Seven Dwarfs because he would be “good for what ails you” We were right on that score too.

Doc was the most gentle and loving Collie one could ever wish for. He was a friend, a good shepherd and above all a fantastic dog for my children. Doc at an early age saved my youngest son from drowning. We live on a large piece of property with a pond. At the time our youngest son Aaron was a toddler. My wife stepped into the shower for a quick shower and the other two boys left the door open and the toddler wandered out into the back yard. At that time Doc never was in our house and suddenly my wife found herself taking a shower with a Collie. Doc barked at her and jumped out of the shower and took off at a dead run through the house. My wife threw on a bathrobe and followed the collie who already was blocking the way to the pond with his body to prevent Aaron from getting any closer to the water.

Doc would escort our kids to the bus stop. He would stand vigil waiting and guarding until the kids were picked up and then went to the front porch and sat and waited until three o’clock. I do not know how that dog knew how to tell time but he would then stand up and wait at the end of the drive way. Ears perked, nose in the breeze and would wait for the bus to drop off our kids.

Doc presided over hundreds of basketball games in the driveway, sledding parties, slumber parties, exploration trips to the gravel pit behind our house, always vigilant always guarding our kids. Always gentle.

Doc earned the title “Gentle Doc” as he loved small children. Even as a 140lb Collie Doc knew how to be kind and gentle with little children. He was never silly, rough, or mean. Little kids loved Doc. He would let them climb all over him and ride his back. The more kids the happier Doc was. He would be wandering around the yard herding children with a big smile on his long nose. He loved people and kids especially. Even children who were deathly afraid of Dogs learned to love Doc. He was that gentle.

One of Docs favorite games was to play “ sneak into the graveyard” We live across the street from a large Cemetery and on some mornings Doc thought it fun to sneak across our gravel road and into the Cemetery. We of course would see his attempt and tap on the window and his ears would go flat and his tail would go between his legs and you could see him think “Rats foiled again” but when he did make it across into the cemetery he would wait till we saw him return from his gallivant with his tail swishing and a big grin on his face like “ha-ha…I had a blast and you didn’t catch me” Although Dogs are forbidden in the Cemetery even the Sexton of our small town loved Doc. He never complained when Doc was successful in evading our watchful eye.

Doc was also friends with the Doggy Daycare person in town. When we left on various vacations Doc was the only dog that did not need to stay in the kennel. He lived in her house and slept in her bed with her. A special treat for Doc because she also fed him Pizza now and then. Doc loved to help her herd all the other puppies during “exercise time” and when he became older presided over the shenanigans from the shade of her porch. He was loved there too.

The mailman and Doc were friends also. He always gave Doc a doggy treat and Doc waited patiently for the mail to arrive every day so he could get a pat on the head and a milk bone. The old urban rumor of Mailman and Dog did not apply to Doc. Doc loved our mailman and our mailman loved Doc.

Doc also loved our cat and our Pug. When the Pug was a little puppy often dock would lie on the ground so he could be “pug size” and would play for hours with this puppy entertaining him. He often let the cat share his kennel on cold winter nights. (In exchange for getting a taste of cat food which the Cat allowed by moving her bowl into Collie range.)

Doc was loved by everyone and Doc loved everyone back. Many guests and Co-workers of mine sat in our home or on our Deck and Doc would be there to great them and wait to be petted by them. Doc loved people.

We rarely heard Doc bark. One fond memory we had was one winter night our fat pug decided that his bowl of food was not enough and went into our mud room to eat some of Docs food…we heard a huge and ferocious barking and the pug scooted out of the mud room with his tail between his legs..”Sheesh..dont get sore about it” The pug never ate out of Docs food again. Doc one time barked at a door to door salesperson that had a bad vibe. I was gone and he approached the house when the kids were in the yard playing. He spoke to one of my kids. Bad idea, you should check with the shepherd before speaking to the sheep. He never made it to the doorbell. Doc growled and barked so savagely that the kids were amazed.

About two hours ago Doc, the Collie, faithful friend, Family member, and the best dog a family could ever be blessed with died peacefully in my and my son’s arms. I am not ashamed to say that I wept in true sorrow. In the last year Docs health had begun to decline, He had stopped eating, and had lost almost half of his body weight in over a year. He was becoming incontinent and for a dog that we honest to god never had to pick up a dog poop because he was shy about his daily toilet, this was a huge embarrassment for him.

This morning he was unable to stand and looked at me with pain in his eyes and I knew it was time for him to go. My son and I carried him to my car and put him in the back seat. As we drove away from the house he raised his head and looked at our house for one last time and whined and howled. It broke my heart, but he knew it was his time.

I am so glad that I was such a lucky man to have such a wonderful dog as a friend and a pet and as a member of my family. Some people say that Dogs do not go to heaven. I do not believe that for a minute. Doc is in heaven right now. Healthy, happy and hopefully guarding some children on a playground somewhere.

RIP my beloved pet. I loved you.

Ren

( doc dressed as a clown for a suprise 40th birthday party four years ago )
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What a moving tribute to a beloved family member. I've had a few dogs over my life, but never one that shows one tenth of Doc's qualities.

I am truly sorry for you loss.
 
I've had a lot of dogs come and go in my life,it's always hardest to see the good ones go.Sorry for your loss Ren.RIP Doc
 
Very sad, Ren. I don't look forward to the day when our Shepherd passes on. I can only hope that, given time, hearts heal for your family members.

- Mark
 
You have me crying like a baby, Ren. I've had to face that situation several times and it never is easy. It's hard to lose a family member and sometimes the four-footed members are the hardest... RIP, Doc.
 
I am crying my heart and eyes out. What a beautiful tribute to a beloved family member. I am deeply sorry for such a great loss.

I am including a poem that has always helped me through times like this. I hope it helps you and your family.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

 
Prayers for you and your family Ren. That was a very nice tribute for your loyal and faithful companion. My wife refers to our dogs as "fur-kids". Pretty much the truth if you ask me. -Matt-
 
So very sorry for your loss,Ren.
My brother lost his beloved Lab,Sheba,last year and she was his kids Protector as well.
Very moving tribute to Gentle Doc.
Sincerest Condolences.

Doug
 
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your friend.







A number of years ago I still lived in the country, and over the years had a fair number of dogs, each special in their own way with their own unique personalities. We had a brother and sister black lab pair that were inseparable since puppyhood. Indeed the reason we had both of them was that they wouldn't let each other go when we tried to pick just the boy from the litter.

5 years passed, and both dogs were as wonderful as could be. The boy had the bearing of a prince; strong, proud and brave. The girl was passive and goofy, but vigilant at any threat, despite her noticeably rotund nature. Both were among the most perceptive dogs I've ever met.

We went on vacation, and had to leave the boy behind, cared for by a good family friend. Unfortunately for our dog and us, the family friend was not capable of caring for a dog and an absurd and preventable accident caused his death. Luckily, our neighbor was kind enough to bury him under an oak tree on our property. Had we only asked him to care for the dog in the first place...

The girl seemed to know what had happened as soon as we got the phone call. For the next two days she was withdrawn and sullen, completely against her nature. Once we got home a couple days after the boy had been buried, she immediately, without any accompaniment, sauntered the 100 yards straight to the grave of her brother and wouldn't leave for several days. For the rest of her life she visited that grave once in the morning and once at night.
 
I am very sorry for your loss and understand your pain. I had to let my best buddy go earlier this year and a little piece of me went with her. Maybe your Doc and my Sadie are running together right now. I have to believe that dogs go to heaven. What kind of place would heaven be without dogs?
Jim
 
It's a very painful thing to go through,I feel for you,they just don't live long enough to suit us------RIP DOC and Skylar--------------
 
They just never live long enough. I think that it is G-d's gentle way of reminding us that death is around the corner for everyone and everything.

I do hope Doc is in heaven, Ren.

Best Regards,

Steven Garsson
 
Very sorry, Ren. I cried like a baby when I had to have my dog put down, so I know how you feel. :(
 
Ren, I am so sorry I missed your call. My condolences to you and your family on the loss of Doc. He sounds like the perfect dog to have with your kids growing up. I know how they are, I grew up with a collie too.
Damn.
 
My sincere condolences Ren.

I am reasonably sure that Collies are the nicest dogs made. Probably due to thousands of years of breeding for characteristics favorable as sheep-herding dogs, gentle and watchful. It also seems that large older males are the nicest Collies, literally the best of the best.
 
:cool:...I could read this every day for years and I'd well up in tears every time I read it...My heart goes out to you and your family Ren...:(
 
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