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Once again war hits home....:(

Mike was a friend of my brother.



Michael Tarlavsky

Monday, August 16 2004 @ 11:16 AM EST

Contributed by: tomw



The Associated Press -- Family members remembered a Clifton man killed in Iraq as a natural athlete who dreamed as a youngster of becoming a soldier.

Michael Tarlavsky, 30, was killed Thursday during a raid in the holy city of Najaf, according to a published report. He was a captain with the 1st Battalion, 5th Special Forces Group, based in Fort Campbell, Ky.

Tarlavsky was married in 2002 and had a 10-month-old son, his family told the Herald News of West Paterson for Saturday's editions.

Elina Tarlavsky said her brother had always wanted to be a soldier, and was upset when he was unable to participate in the Gulf War because he was a year too young to enlist.

He attended Rutgers University on an ROTC scholarship and was later assigned to Korea's demilitarized zone, where among other duties he provided security for Secretary of State Madeleine Albright and Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu.

"He bragged most about that," Elina Tarlavsky said, referring to the latter assignment.

Tarlavsky's family emigrated from Latvia when Michael was 5 and settled in New Orleans, then moved to Clifton in 1986. At Clifton High School, he was an Eagle Scout and captain of the school swim team.

Athletics seemed to come naturally to her brother, Elina Tarlavsky said, noting that he never specifically trained to run marathons yet ran in nine of them.

Tarlavsky's father, Yury, remembered talking to his son about the world becoming more dangerous for soldiers after Sept. 11, 2001.

"I told him, it's very difficult for a father to bury his son," Yury Tarlavsky said Friday. "I probably didn't give him too much love. I was all the time on the job, fixing my house. I cannot ask him forgiveness for this."

Clifton Mayor James Anzaldi said Tarlavsky is the first Clifton resident to die in combat since the Vietnam War. "This is a Clifton kid, he went to Clifton schools, it's just a very sad thing. Our hearts go out to the family," Anzaldi said.

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What a terrible loss. :( I hate to hear the father punishing himself like he does in the article. There's nothing worthwhile that will come out of torturing himself over lost opportunities. I'll keep him and his family in my prayers. It sounds like he would've been a wonderful dad. He's irreplaceable. :(

I'll pray for your brother too. Our nation lost one of its best. :(
 
This is just heartbreaking to read, Ken, especially due to the father's comment. Our sympathies to your brother and the man's family. They gave the most precious thing they could to their adopted country, as did Michael.
 
Ken, I'm sorry to hear about one more good guy killed. My condolences to his family.
 
I'm truly sorry to hear this. He sounds like someone we would all have been proud to call a friend. Our sympathy is with his family.

James
 
Sympathy and condolences to his family and friends. It sounds like your brother lost someone special. My prayers go out to his family.

Ken
 
Im tired of this war..and Im tired of our boys dying in places called "holy city" holy city my ass..its a slum..controlled by a nutcase, lying, murdering, scumbag who claims to have some sort or religious affiliation to the shi'ite faith..fuucking murderers...we should flatten that shrine with a smart bomb and then seed it with mines..

my condolances to his family for his loss and a salute to him for his ultimate love of country and sacrifice..
 
The family has my sympathy, he seems like someone who was very personable and patriotic. I also feel very badly for his father who now has to live with that guilt, and to see someone who wanted to fight for their country die is tragic. I remember reading not long ago about that man who lost around 170 pounds just so he could enlist in the army, and then he was killed :(
 
Ken, my condolences to the family and your brother.

Also, I would encourage anyone who can to go to http://www.specialops.org/ and donate. The money will be used to provide college tuition for the children of special operations soldiers who are killed in the line of duty.
 
Mike is home. He is going to be buried in Arlington National Cemetary.
 
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