Originally posted by allenC:
I see your point but I have to disagree. I has been my experience that 99.9% of street confrontations don't occur in a split-second. If you are aware of your surroundings and alittle streetwise you can usually see trouble coming your way (in plenty of time to ready your knife). Most attackers prey on people who are totally self-absorbed and unaware, or those who simply ignore their own senses warning them.
Just curious but what do you base 99.9% on? It seems unrealistic.
Yes, I agree that there are ways to be defensive. There are the cliche: walk in well lit streets, don't walk alone, walk with an attitude, note people who may be following you, etc. However, violence is a lot like car accidents. Some you can foresee and swerve, and others just T-bone you out of nowhere. The main reason is that assessment is based on human psyche, and humans are not infallible. The best laid plans can oft go awry.
I consider myself pretty attentive and yet I've been in situations where things just "erupt". Now I'm not talking about a street gang that tails you for a block before they pounce on you, or shadowy figures looming in the alley. I'm talking about spontaneous human volatility. eg, bumping the "wrong guy" at a bar, squabbles which erupt into fist-fights, sucker punches, etc.
Even when there is some forewarning, I wouldn't be pulling out weapons at the drop of a hat. I would like to think that a reasonable person would try to diffuse the situation first.
For example, I was in a situation where a thug pushed an old woman. I commented that he shouldn't do that. His response was "what are you going to do about it." This was a warning obviously but would it have helped for me to pull out a knife at this point? Absolutely not. I tried to calm him down instead. Then he took a sucker punch (actually a kick) at me. Then all hell broke loose.
Sure there are many situations where you can see trouble coming. I totally agree. But I think in many other situations -- more than .1% anyway -- you have to rely on pure reflex, and survival instincts. I don't think a clumsy pocket knife is going to help you. You have to have something that you can easily reach and deploy.