I too love Tung oil. I use a particular brand as my favorate (Waterlox -
http://www.waterlox.com/ ) but other brands will do and I have also used Formby's, which is a blend of Tung and other not disclosed oils. The Formby's cures quicker but is not pure Tung oil. Waterlox is but is modified so as to cure. Unmodified Tung oil does not completely cure. A good grade modified Tung (again; Waterlox) should be allowed to cure for about 2 days between coats. Regardless of the brand or type of oil mix with mineral spirits so that the oil(s) can penetrate deep. For the first coats, the sealer coats, mix very thin - say at least 3 or 4 mineral spirits to 1 part oil. Seal this way for about the first 2 sealer coats, then mix a little thicker as additional coats are added to the wood. End when it is apparent the wood obsorbs no more oil.
After sealing, the wood can be wet sanded using the same mineral spirits/oil mixture if you wish to fill the grain. Do not wet sand until the wood has received at least two thinned sealer coats and there is no such thing as adding too many sealer coats (unless the wood just will not obsorb any more).
Always allow the the oil to cure before applying additional coats and wipe all excess oil off the surface of the wood after allowing the oil to penetrate. Do no allow the oil to cure above the wood surface. An exception is wet sanding where all oil can not be wiped off without pulling the wet sanding dust out of the grain, but as little oil film as possible will be left on the surface and sanded smooth after the final coat cures.
Tung oil will not give a high sheen but rather a classic wood finish which allows the wood grain to speak for itself. If a high sheen is desired another oil or even polyurethane or even an epoxy can be used above the Tung oil coats so long as the slow curing Tung oil is allowed to completely cure first. Uncured oil can bleed through the surface coats if not first cured with time.
Never hurry curing time by adding heat above ambient room temperature or by exposing to sun light. Doing so can cause the oil to cure unevenly and if filling grain can cause the grain to open. Patience is the great secret.
RL