The lock bar face is carburized. That's means the Titanium on the lock bar won't wear as it engages the steel. Once you disengage the lock bar, it does not touch the blade. At that point, the ceramic detent ball rides on the steel until it is fully open or closed.
When you are disengaging the lock bar, if you don't push the lock bar over very much, you'll feel the detent ball jump onto the blade. That's not an issue. If you push it over a tad bit more, you won't feel the detent ball when it starts to ride on the blade. You should see the detent track on the blade when it's apart. If there is any build up on the detent ball from dirt, dried juice, or anything else, it will feel gritty.
Clean the detent ball, as mentioned daub a bit of grease on it and see if feels better. The pinched washer is going to affect the feel of the knife.