It's easy to mount DMT diamond hones on an edge pro. You'll need a piece of brass or steel tubing 3/8 " by 3 ". Just unscrew the round knob handle, remove the tubing that it comes with, & replace it with the above. That will allow you to tighten up a diamond hone with no problem. The main benifits with 'em are that they always stay flat & they remove metal fast. Check your Edgepro stones & lap 'em flat if need be, flat stones are important.
But as already noted, the real problem is the edge is out of alignment. If you just do light push cuts & want an extremely sharp edge, then strop the rolled edge into alignment. A razor will roll it's edge just by feeling the edge with your thumb. It's basically an aligned burr. That's the kind of edge you will have if you finish by stropping it into alignment.
Honing will strengthen the edge if you remove the burr completely, but you still need to be sure that the edge is in alignment when you finish. A 20x or preferably 30x magnifying glass will help a Lot! Radio Shack has an inexpensive 30x self lighted microscope that is great for this, catalog #63-851.
If you don't get a scope, you still can learn to feel the burr. Then remove it using the techniques from Jeff & Cliff.
Ask yourself what you will be using the knife for & set the edge up accordingly.
I carry a knife which will cut hair without touching the skin. If I were to use it for cardboard or wood, even once, I'd have to resharpen it. I use the knife in my other pocket for everyday work. It has a more durable edge.
When you ask which stone should you use on the Edgepro to remove the burr, that's up to you. Coarser stone creates a more agressive edge, finer stone, more polished edge. You may want to read the manual again on page 9 where it explains feeling for the burr, removing it, and finishing the edge. The technique you described for stropping works fine Wade, so does the one I described. Try each & see which gives the best results. Different knives will respond to different techniques. But to really polish the edge, not just align it, use stropping compound rubbed into the strop.
Here are some tables that may help you to cross reference between the different grits & classes of sharpening media. But the answer is really more about getting the edge aligned than what grit is used.
http://www.ameritech.net/users/knives/grits.htm
http://www.gemsociety.org/info/chmesh.htm