Agree, I have been using DMT diamond plates for many years, two are from the late 1980's - early 1990's and work fine. Most people who complaining about diamonds are using way too much pressure.
I did prematurely wear out an ex coarse DMT plate attempting to flatten an old Stanley cast iron wood plane. Was impatient and pushed it hard into the plate,,, ripped out the diamonds very quickly.
Regards,
FK