Smoke Request, Gentlefolk

Steely_Gunz

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I know that there are lot of smoke and prayer requests going on in the Cantina right now, but if you fine folks could spare a little more for my father-in-law I would appreciate it very much.

My FIL is currently battling liver cancer. Actually, he's been fighting cancer for the better part of 6 years. It started in his colon, they got that. But they missed it when it set in his liver. Well, after much prayer, a very successful chemo program, and a record microablasion (sp?) he was doing fine managing the cancer cell count with oral chemo. However, his doctors have seen a few spots in his lungs that they thought might be scar tissue start to show some activity. They put him back on a heavy treatment.

It's whiped him out, as to be expected. However, it has done TOO good of a job killing things and an infection of a type of fungus normally present on the skin has cause my FIL to break out in a sort of rash. To complicate things to the utmost degree, the topical cream to combat this infection has caused very accute sensory problems in which his skin screams in pain when you touch any hair on his body. To add insult to injury, SOMETHING is causing him to hear and see very vivid hallucinations. He sometimes hears and sees the toilet water running like it was broken..even though it is not. He also sees people in the night. Some he says are funny and happy, some are not so nice to look at, sometimes he sees angels float by.

This is really worrying my MIL and wife, to be sure. My FIL is a very sharp and educated man. He was a chemical engineer for GE for 30 years (which we suspect is how he contracted his cancer to begin with). He's only 62 and acting loopy is NOT in his very scientific nature.
My wife is doing her best to be strong. She's a very emotional person, but she grinding through this, and her steadfast strength is amazing to me. My BIL does not handle such stress very well, so she knows she's got to be the one that is tough (totally not her character). Everyone is doing all that they can do, but it's frustrating.

If you fine folks could spare a little smoke or a thought or prayer, I would ever so much appreciate it. Prayer got him to the point that he was able to live a very normal active life for a couple of years. Now we have another battle to face.

Thanks so much,
Jake
 
Many prayers for you Jake. I cannot imagine the horror of my wife loosing her father. Smoke for all involved. I'm so sorry.
 
Smoke sent, may you find peace and strength from within. Take care, my father had a similar fate. First it was the discovery of colon cancer after he complained of finding blood in his stool. They got the colon cancer out, but it had already invaded his liver. He lived for two more years. Being a stuborn fighter, dad lived alot longer than the doctors predicted as the doc only gave him 6 weeks to 6 months after the initial surgery. Chemo didn't help, and made things worse.

Dad gave up on the treatments, filled his cooler with beer, went out in the boat and enjoyed fishing for another summer and enjoyed what was left in his life. Unfortunately, cancer caught up with him in the end, but he fought it every inch of the way. He was 72 just over 10 years ago.
 
Smoke up, and a suggestion: See if you can chat with a geriatric pharmacologist. Sometimes people with multiple problems and multiple docs get loaded up with too many different kinds of pills and it causes bad things. Too often, the first impulse the docs have when hearing about these symptoms is to add yet another prescription to the regimen.

I've also seen a pharmacy screw up and give out the wrong pills and cause hallucinations and hospitalization. The patient might not realize it's the wrong pill because they've gotten too used to getting different generics each time.
At very least, see if a good pharmacist can spend some time discussing his meds and if there's something you should ask his docs about.
 
For you, Jake, anything. Will break out the ndn smudge. :(

Not long after my wife & I got married, I took care of my father- full time- til he died of diabetic complications. Mom died two months later, cancer. Then my wife's dad had a stroke and died, all within a year. All that stress is the reason, I think, we didn't have children. Taking care of dying parents had priority in our lives.

Hoping your FIL beats it and pulls through. You'll be in our thoughts, bud.


Mike :(
 
Thank you, folks. You really are kind. My wife has been hearing me relaying stories of your kindness for years now. I'm gonna forward this to her or at least have her read it when she gets home.

Thanks again.
Jake
 
Smoke, Jake. God, my heart goes out to him, you, your wife, and everybody else involved. Let us know if there's anything that you need from us.

Chris
 
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