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I haven't been aroun much lately, but I consider a lot of the hogs here friends, so I wanted to have you brothers and sisters involved. Hogs ARE family.

So last Friday I did a routine PET/CAT scan to make sure I'm still cancer free after 3 years. Yesterday I went to see my physician to talk to her about something else, and she helped me with that then proceeded to show me my results from the scans. It appears that my cancer is back. I will be seeing my surgeon on Thursday after work about a biopsy.

Crazy isht is that it was exactly 3 years from the day we discovered my first mass, and also my daughter's 7mo birthday. Even crazier is that my mother works for my physician, and she was the one who received the fax.

It gets worse, though.

My wife, daughter and I went to Toys R Us to buy my mother a carseat for when she watches SofiBelle, and as we were leaving i called my mom to see if we should pick up dinner. When she picked up the phone she was crying hysterically. Someone had robbed my parents' house earlier in the day.

They stole almost every big-ticket item in the house. All my dad's guitars, including the US Strat my sister and I bought him for their 30th anniversary, all the jewelry, credit cards, TV, etc... What's worse is that the first thin I saw when I walked in was the holster i'd given my pops with the SA EMP I'd gifted him. Now there's some criminal ufck out there runnig around with a gun attatched to my name, and I KNOW it will be used in a later crime. That's what criminals do, right?

Two fortunate events: my parents' rat terrier Jack Baur was not visibly harmed and he was still in the house. They must have kicked him once or twice because h was very skittish and had messed all over the house.

Second: my mother often goes home about noon to hang with Jack and eat lunch. If she had gone home that day she may have walked in on two home invaders armed with the most accurate gun I've ever shot. Thank god she stayed at work.

So now my parents are having to piece things back together. Many of the things taken were acquired over a 32 year marriage. Jewelry heirlooms, and my father's classic roundback Ovation, bought for my father by my mother beforethey were married. This was something she worked hard for as a 17yr old fresh from Puerto Rico. My father LOVED that guitar.

Ultimately it is all material and can be replaced, but the fear and helplessness, the anger--those are what remains.

I left my pops one of my two BSSed Glock 19's and a full mag of GDHP's. Tomorrow I will take him two more mags and some more rounds, as well as a holster.

What an ugly way to start the Christmas season.

Anyway...I just want to remind my brothers and sister to stay vigilant. I try to live by my buddy Ben's company motto: Conscius, Paratus, Fidens...Aware, Prepared, Without Fear.

Oh, and the officer said it would be two weeks before the detectives could come and gather prints to begin their investigation. Wow...
 
Bro, sounds like you are having a rough time.

Much love and smoke from PA.

Hang in there.
 
Sorry to hear everything. When it rains, it rains hard. I have had sh!$$^ times like these and I remember one of my favorite quotes from Platoon that Keith David said. "Keep your pe@#er hard and your powder dry and the world will turn." I am a two time cancer survivor myself. Diagnosed when I was 19, had radiation, two year remission, 6 months of chemo, and now been cancer free for almost 15 years. I know what you are going through. I came up with my own saying after that. "What doesn't kill me, only p!$$&$ me OFF!" So get mad and fight brother. I'll be thinking of ya.
 
Oh man, thats hard to read. I am real sorry brother.

Stay strong and keep us up to date. God Bless you.

You will be fine:thumbup:
 
WOW... that's a whole lotta stuff hitting you and your family all at once. :(

Glad your mom wasn't home for the robbers... that could have been bad.

Stay strong... you've kicked cancer's butt before, I'm sure you can do it again! :thumbup:

Smoke & prayers headed your way. :thumbup:


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gatman, sorry to hear that man, but you are a survivor and will pull through!!! as for mom and dad and the breakin, i retired from law enforcement oct 1. two weeks until they come and take prints is asinine even in miami, talk to a supervisor over the detective and go straight up until you get to the chief. that is total bs, big time. i am all about the "the thin blue line" but damn that is ludicrous. i know that you have a lot on your plate, but i hope that it would not take them two weeks if the break in was in progress...

take care brother and smoke and prayers from nc, be sure and holla back!!!
 
I will pray for you and your family. Sorry to hear such terrible news, good luck.
Dan
 
When it rains it pours, cripes.

Hang in there man, smoke and prayers sent.

Keep your chin up.
 
I'm very sorry to hear about all the bad news Jason.

Smoke and prayers sent buddy.
 
Hang in there, things will get better. And as for those thiefs that stole stuff from your parents, lets hope they get theirs.
 
We were robbed when I was a kid. We were all in the garage working on a project and the thieves came in through the bathroom window. My parents were VERY rattled so my heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time.

I'll pray for your cancer.

I'll pray for your parents.

Hang in there brother. :)
 
Gatman...this is tough, as you were the first to welcome me to the Busse forum. I am very sorry to hear of your issues, and although some of those items are just material I know you and your loved ones will miss them.

More importantly I am happy to hear no one was injured aside from the dog catching a boot or two. Hopefully he is all good with the internal organs.

My family will keep you and yours in our prayers as christmas season comes upon you. I am sure with time you will conquer the trials you currently face. I am helping my Mom along as she fights brain cancer. Faith and positive attitude is everything as you already know. Stay strong brother.
 
Very unfortunate strings of events, really sorry to hear about it!

I hope your family can work through this!
 
Gatman. I am really sorry to hear the bad news.
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Best,
Noel
 
Thanks, everyone. This is why I even though I may not be around sometimes, I always come back here.

You people make this place one of the best in cyberspace.

Respect and regards,

Jason
 
IGM, I can't say I'm sorry enough for what you AND your folks are going through. The house robbery makes me very angry the f--king piecs of no acct s#!+ period.........

As far a "C" trust on that one brother I know exactly what your feeling and I'm scared to death to have my post PET/CT in March.

All the smoke and prayers that I can muster my Brother I will glady send your way. Just like you and others have told me WE can and will beat this, and or over come stupid people.
 
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