I only have one standard black VG10 Stretch but it opens pretty smoothly without excessive effort. I have a number of other Spyderco lockback models and there are variations in the opening/closing from sample to sample. One of my Delica 4 models is very stiff, the other two are fine while an older model Delica is still pretty stiff. My Native LW is butter smooth and light opening, the Centofante 3 is smooth but requires more effort and the four Dragonflies are all easy to open but vary in the strength required. My old original behemoth Manix always opens easily and smoothly and locks with a thunk.
I think these are all normal variations--some stiffer than others, some exceptionally light and smooth. I don't flick or flip my knives open so none of this really matters to me. I love 'em all but, in the end, they're meant for cutting and they all do that really well. You can always play with the pivot adjustment on the screwed-together knives and sometimes find the sweet spot on opening/closing effort.
"Blade play", in my definition, is a blade that is loose when in the locked position. Lockbacks can have a tiny amount of front-to-back movement even when locked if enough effort is applied to the blade--that, again, seems pretty normal to me. More than just a barely perceptible amount of movement is a no-no.