So I just sold off almost all pride pieces in my collection..... Somebody hold me...

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Basically in a nutshell.......

$@%^#@%^ the guy who shafted me on renting my house for two months. Now, he is playing the no money, keeping my stuff here card.
My girlfriends mother lives several states away from me right now as her mother was just diagnosed with stage three and it may have spread so I have to get up there to see them and times are way tough.......

Thankfully people didn't beat me up too badly on what I felt were already fairly priced items. I have seen posts like this before and sent mojo some people's way, all I'm asking is maybe if you're religious throwing a prayer up for Susan... Lord knows her daughter isn't ready to lose her yet, not in her early 50's. And yes, I know there's never a good time to say goodbye but I would really love for her to see her daughter walk down the aisle one day while my dumb ass is up there waiting.

*sigh*

Sorry guys and gals, rant over.
 
My prayers for Susan's recovery and your family's general well being.

That said, if the slime ball isn't paying anyway, throw his sorry tail out with all his "stuff" and find a friend to watch the place.
 
My prayers for Susan's recovery and your family's general well being.

That said, if the slime ball isn't paying anyway, throw his sorry tail out with all his "stuff" and find a friend to watch the place.
Can't do it according to the laws around here. HE has a right to live their. Don't get me started on politics lol..... Since day one he's been late and I bent over backwards (over a month behind on rent on average) yet he was out at bars every night because he "Has to have a social life" but couldn't afford rent.
 
Since you say "according to the laws around here" and I don't know where you are, but usually there are legal ways of evicting deadbeats. Short of paying a real estate/ rental attorney for advice, if in a large city, try checking with the local "landlord's council" or what ever they call it and see if they can help you. Maybe even the local "tenant's coucil" can help you. Usually they are there to give renters advice on badly acting land-lords, but they may be willing to advise a land-lord as well, in an effort to prevent landlords from getting tougher deadbeat laws/regulations enacted. Another possibility would be to go to someone who owns several rental properties and see what they do when something like this occurs.

I'm assuming some kind of written lease is involved. If not, then you have other issues to contend with and may need to consult with an attorney or the local JP court to find out what to do. There is always SOME way of ousting deadbeats, even if they are kinfolks.

My parents had rentals for 40+ years and the way they addressed these issues changed as laws and times changed.

Good luck
 
We actually had this one guy stay in a room for about a year who did the same thing, but we couldn't touch him because he'd start breaking stuff in his unit and calling county inspectors over and for some reason or another we weren't allowed to evict him because of that. When we send repairmen in, he'd go ahead and break it again, and then complain to the city about how we're not doing anything about it, and the repairmen didn't want to vouch for us because they figured they found a repeat customer. We're Korean and Koreans generally hesitate to hire people who speak different languages or deal with non Korean speaking businesses so this gets taken advantage of quite a bit (this is also often the case with lawyers, graphic designers, clinics, etc.). I couldn't help much because my mom didn't trust me to hire decent repairmen. A few months after we finally got the bastard out, we had another one who pretty much did the same exact thing and it happened again after we got that one out, but the third guy left after about a couple of months. The last guy was the worst because according to the neighbors he'd bring in a different woman every night and it would usually end in him beating them in a drunken fit. Also, I heard about someone who had his house taken from him by some real estate agency who had one of their employees lock herself in a room in his house. Apparently the cops wouldn't do anything about it so after a few weeks he tried to forcefully evict her himself until she called the cops on him and she was able to claim ownership of the property due to some squatting law. He eventually got his house back but everything inside was gone, so I guess don't make any hasty decisions.
 
Sorry to hear you had to get rid of some knives you really loved. I can understand that much.
Hopes and Prayers for Susan, you, and her family.
No, there is no good time to say goodbye, but I hope she's around for another 30 years(or more).
 
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