you can use two allen wrenches to adjust the pivot? am i missing a new technique or something?
in my experiences with sng/smf's i needed a spanner wrench and an allen wrench to adjust the pivot.
you have options, mongo. hinderer make a strider tool that includes a spanner. i have one, and it works reasonably well. like this:
http://bluelinegear.com/p-309-folding-knife-armorers-kit.aspx
another thing you can search for is bicycle tools. strider bolts are the same thing as bicycle chainring bolts. park tool makes one, which you can buy for like 4 dollars. the only thing is you have to grind down that center "tooth." google like, "park tool chain ring."
or lastly, and more ghetto... i once stole a fork from the dining facility, bent the prongs, and used that as a spanner wrench.
as for lube, any will do. crk florinated grease is nice. miltec is nice. 3in1 is nice. if it lubricates, it will probably be ok.
strider does NOT recommend you taking apart your sng. if you lose/break parts it is not going to be covered under the warrantee. if you have a problem with your sng, your safest bet is to send it back to strider w/ a *specific* letter of what you need.