Thank you Benchmade Axis Lock!

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I want to confess to all forum members what poor judgement I executed last night. I am just ever so thankful that my step daughter did not get a finger cut off. It would have fully been my fault (of course-duh).

All my kids know that I derive pleasure out of cutting up cardboard from Costco shopping sessions (Wife and I are raising 5 kids), so there is always plenty of recycling to do. In fact, that is probably my #1 task with whatever knife is in my pocket.

So, my step daughter, 10 yrs. old, and I, worked on her math homework til 9 PM. We wrapped it up and I asked her to help me get the recycling items to the bin. Some cardboard, some paper junk mail, and some plastics. I did not turn on the light on the side of the house (bulb needs replacing). Being the dork I am, thanked my daughter for being with me because I was scared of the dark. There was a little light from the street, and the moon, but not enough light to be using a sharp knife. I was slicing the corner of the boxes, flattening them out and throwing them into the bin. She then asked if she could make a slice. I said sure. I handed her the knife carefully, but she switched it upside down in her hand and began attempting to slice the cardboard with the spine. :eek: I did not see her rotate the knife in her hand. I purposely put it in her palm blade side down and positioned her in front of me. I did not think that she would change positions of the knife. I could not see it well enough to tell that she had because of the dark. After her 3rd back and forth motion, I abruptly told her to stop. I grabbed the knife and showed her which side was sharp. I made a bad assumption that she was aware of a sharp side, and a dull side. I got a sick feeling in my stomach to think that knife could have folded up on her fingers. I use the Razor Sharp paper wheels, and have a hair whittling edge on all of my knives. The only reason I knew something was wrong, was because it was obvious that she was applying downward pressure with a sawing motion. My Griptilian will push cut even 2 ply cardboard. Thank you Benchmade! That Axis lock held. It did it's job, and protected my daughter from my stupid moronic self.:o
The whole event took place under a minute from her asking me to cut, and me handing her the knife. She helps with dishes, and knows how sharp our house knives are. She is careful with them.

I want all my kids to enjoy knives, and percieve them as very useful tools. I almost wrecked that for my daughter. I am posting this, embarassed as I am, just to let you all know how easy it could be to make a big mistake. I am dumber than a bag of hammers for what I did last night, but more importantly, I am thankful she was not injured.

I do not feel I made a mistake in letting her try to cut cardboard, she did that fine. I made a huge mistake not having adequate light. I also failed to pay full attention as to what she was doing. Last, I did not show her which side cuts on a folding knife. All she wanted to do was share in her dad's cutting fun. I will not make this mistake again.
 
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Phew, glad she didn't get hurt :thumbup:

I have to say, I don't know how you parents keep your kids out of danger. My wife and I are not having children but are very close friends with neighbors on the same floor of our building. They have a 2 year old girl who loves to come over to our apartment and play with our dog and just goof around. I used to leave crazy sharp knives all around the apartment but have since consolidated most to either a closet or a shelf. The little girl was over the other day playing with crayons on the floor when I got a cell phone call. I literally turned my attention away for at most 30 seconds, when I look over she was reaching for the shelf, which was at her eye level, that had about 6 unsheathed, razor sharp fixed blades on it. I almost crapped my pants but got to her in time. Such potential ugliness so narrowly averted :o I have since moved all of those knives to a shelf that is only visible if you are 5 feet or taller. That incident still makes me shudder :eek:
 
I am glad that I waited til my 30's to have kids. I was too selfish and immature prior to that. Once you have kids, everything changes. You now exist to raise those children. It is truly a blessing, a labor of love. It is frustrating as all get out, but somehow you manage to stay on task. If that little girl is going to frequent your place, you should look at your lower cabinets, and move any liquids that can be harmful, and yes, keep your knives away from her. If you are watching her for a short spell, you should just devote your full attention. It will be amazing watching her respond to you. If you cannot devote full attention, you may want to invest in a crib. That way she will be safe in a non baby safe house. If you are not ready for kids, wait, but not too long. You want to be able to look them in the eyes coherently when thier kids do the same thing to them, as they did to you! I cannot wait for that moment in time, when my kids realize how difficult it is to be a parent.
 
Having dealt with a lot of kids I always tell all my friends not to assume anything. I've seen 10 year old fumble about for 10 minute tying their laces cos I assumed they know how it's done. Glad she's okay... More and more I'm liking the Axis for ease of opening and reliability. For the young ones I've always felt a fix blade is the best first knife for them to handle as there's less manipulation needed.
 
If you are watching her for a short spell, you should just devote your full attention.

That's usually the plan. I love her dearly and her parents trust us completely. We often leave our doors open and she just comes over on her own and I love hanging out with her, but you're right I really need to baby-proof this place better than I have :o
 
Having dealt with a lot of kids I always tell all my friends not to assume anything. I've seen 10 year old fumble about for 10 minute tying their laces cos I assumed they know how it's done. Glad she's okay... More and more I'm liking the Axis for ease of opening and reliability. For the young ones I've always felt a fix blade is the best first knife for them to handle as there's less manipulation needed.

She has no problem washing the steak, bread and butcher knives. She is careful and they are sharp.

Since I have a blended family, my blood, twin boys are 12, but not ready to have a knife full time. I let them use one on a day hike or fishing or camping, but not to have yet full time. They need more time my gut says. My boys names are CJ jr. and Killian. Killian is going to get the Griptilian in question. No need to ask why right?:D My stepdaughter just loves my Fight'n Rooster end of day stockman. She will get that one. My kids want me dead already. :grumpy:

I also have a stepson 11, and another step son 8. I think if I was forced to give a folder to one of my children and trust it was handled responsibly, it would still be my little girl. I could trust her not to sneak it to school. I am not sure the boys are ready for that yet. I do not want to have knives become an issue.
 
Glad to know that everything worked out well. We're human and we certainly will make mistakes in judgment. The best we can do when the inevitable happens is be humble enough to admit when we did something wrong and perceptive enough to determine what exactly to learn from it.
 
That's usually the plan. I love her dearly and her parents trust us completely. We often leave our doors open and she just comes over on her own and I love hanging out with her, but you're right I really need to baby-proof this place better than I have :o

I am an uncle of 4, soon to be 5, and I can tell you, kids make their parents earn every gray hair on their heads. You can completely baby-proof your house and kids will still manage to hurt themselves. It's all a part of growing up.

Still, I'm glad you've taken steps to remove those razor sharp knives from your neighbor's daughter. Just be careful she doesn't start moving a chair and stacking things up to get to em again. ;)

Here's a little story to share. When I was a baby I used to be placed in a walker. My twin brother and I would speed around the house in those things. My mother tried to baby-proof the house as best she could, but with an older brother and aloof father, things would sometimes go awry.

On one particular evening, my brother and I must have been racing around the living room in our walkers (which have buckles to keep the kids in). My sister was ironing in the dining room (which is connected to the living room) and the phone rings. She sets the iron down for a moment and goes to the phone. I don't remember this, but I'm told that I must have walked over to the ironing board, slipped out of the buckled belt and climbed onto my walker. I then placed my hand on top of the ironing board and the iron fell down on my hand. To this day I still have the scar and my sister feels terrible about it.

Yeah, you can say my sister was at fault but who isn't? None of us are perfect all the time and kids will get hurt. We all have. Prepare as best you can but also expect that some curveballs will come your way. :thumbup:
 
That's why you EDC a small light, especially if you are afraid of the dark! ;);)

There's always a knife (or 4), a light, and a gun in my pockets. Hopefully I will never need the last one but I would rather have it and not need it. The other two are used daily. I may not always have something to cut, but it gets dark every night without fail.
 
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i love folding knives and all the cool locking mechanims out there. overall the liner/frame lock is my favorite lock from an aesthetic point of view--it's just so simple and elegant.

however, the AXIS is probably the most reliable locking mechanism out there. once, i even removed the omega springs :eek: and tested the lockup of an axis knife and you can get 100% lockup by shoving a twig behind the lockbar!!! so when i go into the great outdoors, the only folders I consider taking are axis locks.
 
Good to hear she is ok. I only have one axis lock knife, a 550HG Grip and I have to agree with others that it is a great mechanism. I have been showing my daughter (11 years old) knife safety and I started her off with the axis lock on the grip. For her 12th birthday I will probably get her one of the pink mini grips for our fishing trips and hikes.
 
That's why you EDC a small light, especially if you are afraid of the dark! ;);)

There's always a knife (or 4), a light, and a gun in my pockets. Hopefully I will never need the last one but I would rather have it and not need it. The other two are used daily. I may not always have something to cut, but it gets dark every night without fail.

That one was great, thanks for the chuckle!:) I know I am going to get a nice flashlight, Sure Fire, but do not want to derail my own thread. :D
 
Well to derail it a little more I would suggest a single cell light that is small so you actually carry it all the time.

I have a single CR123 cell Fenix light that I carried for 2 years. However, I got a cheap (but great quality) Chinese light not too long ago. It is a AKOray K-106. It uses AA form and can take the rechargeable 4.2V batteries and is really bright. It has 3 programmable levels so you can change output brightness, or a strobe and change the frequency or an SOS. It was 20 bucks for the light and 10 for a charger and couple batteries. It also has a pocket clip which helps carrying it. I carry it almost always over the fenix now and it has those 'free lumens' I have been really impressed with it and it is freakin bright on high, probably close to 180 lumens.

Back on topic: I love AXIS locks! It's about all I want to carry anymore and I never not have my Rift in my pocket. I will carry another knife with it so others get carry time but that one is always there. I did have a spring break but I got some wire and made a new one. I don't question it's strength or reliability at all. Things do break sometimes and after a lot of use it did, but I was able to make a spring so it's no big thing to me.

Oh yeah, I'm glad she is ok! I don't like cutting myself but I get over it and she might not have since she is young and that would be a shame. I'm sure she would love a pink knife that is similar to dads when she is ready.

Ryan
 
good to hear everything is alright i remember when i was a kid i picked up my dads spyderco (the only reason why i remember is bc i still own it) and wasnt as fortunate ended up at the hospital with a deep cut in my hand right were your thumb meets your index finger on my right hand wasnt pretty
 
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