The Loss Of A Little One

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I got one of those phone calls last night. Like a Gambling wheel you don't know how bad it is until the dice come to rest. A little boy passed away. He has played in this house, been fed, was the apple of his Daddie's eye.

He was a very very smart little boy. I asked my mother this morning about this; about another loss in another time that had impacted my family so deeply. 40 years ago a little boy died after an operation. He bled to death. Too much blood loss. The Mother turned to God and never looked back; this boy was beloved, everyone loved him, he was very very smart. How simple a thing to lose a life. How easy to lose the best. When they are ahead of themselves and growing fast, full of love like a gusher.

The little boy who died was digging a hole in his backyard like all of us have done. Something went wrong, a bank failed and the cave-in suffocated the child. I can easily see him digging that hole. With Gusto. Damn the torpedos, we're going to China. He was a brown haired bright kid. J. When he was two he toilet trained himself. I laughed at that; my yuppie neighbors had a kid who could clean up after himself and he was just two years old. I have a kid who if he could, would hire a lawyer to stretch the process out.

But I have a kid. IT could happen to any one of us, and when it happens, we know that. It hurts.

Prayers for the family of J tonight. We know we are here and others are not.
And that puts politics at the office, at the forum, with the salesman, or anywhere into perspective. That puts the Key- scratch on your new car into perspective. IT puts TV and Stereo and houses and nations into perspective.

We are all of us here, doing the best we can, with a little kindness.




munk
 
So tragic. A parent's worst nightmare. Prayers sent to the little one's family. All of mine will get an extra long hug this evening.

Eric
 
This is the kinda story I can barely handle hearing about since having Hannah. Prayers from Atlanta. What a trajedy.
 
I am so desperately sorry. Prayers for J's family, of course. Prayers for your crowd too - your kids won't quite know what to make of the loss. It's probably their first.

My youngest played with a grand little lad in pre-school. Eventually, the very outdoorsy family excitedly moved to a spread in the country, where three months later the four-year-old tripped into a slough and drowned. The family blew to pieces.

As you say, Munk, we still have our kids - wet pants, attitude and all. Thank God.
 
Prayers and heartfelt condolences. I've dug many a hole and "cave" when I was a boy, as Munk mentioned, most of us have. Who's to know why one tumbles where another holds fast, none of us were engineers. Luck, fate, divine intervention, who can know? A boy is gone, a family mourns, and the world is deprived of the man he might have been. That much we do know. :(

Sarge
 
I can't imagine it. My heart goes out to you Shadow. I'm so sorry for that family Munk. Hug your boys.
 
Sorrow and prayers from South Florida. I had to deliver the same news to a mom and dad not long ago,and it was the worst errand i've done in my life.
No matter how old I get the anguish I witnessed was the second worst thing in my life.
peace
Jorge
 
My heart and prayers go out to little J's family. Shadow, prayers for you also. Flacoman, I had to deliver news like that twice, it was two times too many. Prayers for all of us.
 
I sincerely believe little J is already in a better place. My prayers this evening are for the parents who need God's help to get thru this one......
 
Smoke and prayers from Kansas. What a terrible tragedy. I lost my father at age 5, while not quite the same I can imagine what a terrible loss and void this leaves.
 
He was smart and alive, handsome and full of steam. He was digging on a large sandpile. A bank of sand came down on him. He lay in a coma for 5 days, everything being done, but it was not to be.

I remember thinking; what was it? A car? A drunk? A bad man? A fall?

We lose some. That is the way it is. I know his father. His father is an amazing man, a man who has it in him to break down walls, and has.

And all the stuff in my hands is just stuff. God Calls them up. Who knows why? I believe more than ever in the Great Heart, God, The mystery, and am thankful we have an opportunity to exist



munk
 
Smoke...it's always the worst when it's the kids.
 
I was scared to read this thread Munk, then I was so relieved it wasnt your child.

Even though I am on a high today , reading it leaves put a little empty hollow inside me. {guess it touches the to many memorys}

I didnt post first time I read it.just sat & thought & felt.

I know death is part of life but it seems so sad sometimes.

Spiral
 
My god Munk I'm so sorry:(

Prayers for him and for you and yours... Please remember to breathe and take it easy and let your kids get out their sadness however they can.

My heart is heavy. So hard to imagine his parents going through this..Prayers most especially for them
 
Many heartfelt prayers from Boise, my call came in 1988, my only child. He was 12 and lived with his mother on the other side of the country, I tell folks it took me a couple of years to get over that, in fact I'm not sure I have or will.
Prayers and smoke from me.

Dick
 
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