The Loss of a Warrior

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Concealment holster maker Gary Brommeland posted this over on the CCW forum.....it is about a dear friend, mentor, and true warrior.

He was like a father to both of us....my best friend.


"Monday afternoon (23 October) I got a call informing me that my friend and mentor, William D. Whiteford had passed away suddenly that morning.

The reason I feel compelled to post this notice publicly is that Bill was THE ultimate "Cold Warrior" and every single American owes this man a huge debt of gratitude that will never be repaid. His story deserves to be made known.

His military career started in Vietnam, where he was recruited into the world of Special Operations. Although he was VERY reluctant to ever speak of his experiences, I know that he was involved in some of the blackest of black ops. He once confided in me that he had survived over 50 CQB engagements in his career, and he was probably the single deadliest, most capable human being I've ever encountered (yet he could easily be mistaken for an insurance salesman).
After Vietnam, he traveled the world pursuing his duties as a field agent for a particular government service. (He would never even admit to who he actually worked for, but would often just say that he was "from uncle", which I took to be a tongue and cheek reference to a cheesy spy show from the 60's called "The man from U.N.C.L.E".) Bill had a really weird sense of humor.

I met him in 1986 when he bought one of my early holsters. We became friends and as I learned of his "expertise", I asked him to serve as an informal design consultant. He was a pretty tough critic, and as he mentored me I suffered being called a "F***ing retard" (among other things) on more than one occasion, but he never, ever steered me wrong. Bill's skill, experience and expertise were incorporated into my holster designs and he was a big part of how and why they became known as "high performance" concealment gear. We spent many long (often VERY) long days experimenting and trying new ideas until the product line finally evolved into something that we were both satisfied with.

Bill was also the most honest, ethical guy I've ever met, and the most loyal of friends. He was old school, kinda gruff (sometimes REALLY gruff) and the kind of guy who would tell you the straight truth whether you liked it or not - but you could ALWAYS count on him to do the right thing - no matter what the cost. And as I alluded to before, he posessed a very keen (although dry and dark) wit. It was impossible to ever predict what would come out of his mouth, but the one thing I always knew was that it would be exactly what he thought - and he didn't really care how anyone else felt about it. More often than not, it would leave everyone present red faced, speechless or rolling on the floor (and often some combination of the above).

This man devoted his entire life to helping and protecting others. The world was certainly a much better place while he walked among us. Now that he is gone, there is a void in my heart that will never heal. He was my teacher, mentor, antagonist and friend. I will never be the same without him.

Rest in peace my friend. I'm gonna miss you."
 
Amen to all that Gary said........

I attended Bill's military funeral today...having lost the best friend I ever had.

Gary describes EXACTLY my relationship with Bill......substitute knives for holsters.

He was truly one of those people who allowed us to rest peacefully in our beds.

The pastor today said "If one were to look up loyalty and integrity in the dictionary....Bill's picture would be the definition"

So I raise my glass in a last goodbye...
Sleep in Peace my friend...
To me you'll never die....
The best thing I can say after all this time...
Is that you were an old friend of mine.

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Thanks IG.....I hope it is a peaceful place...

He spent quite literally his entire life involved in not-so-peaceful places...Volunteered in 1964, got stationed in Turkey and volunteered for VN...first in VN in late 65...did his tour, left the Army, then re-upped for the ASA...then to Korea and back to Nam in 1967. The above pic was taken during the 1970 incursion into Cambodia while he was ASA attached to the 11th Cav. He was within a few yards of General (then Major) Tommy Franks when he lost most of his foot/leg by an NVA grenade that year.

After VN he had an option to go to work for the NSA but he said it required deskwork for awhile and that was not him....so he began to do contract work for "Big Daddy" and those years he never really talked about. He did once tell me that he thinks he spent a grand total of 3 or 4 days in the USA all through the 1970's. He married his wife in 1976 in her native home of Taiwan while working for the 76th Special Operations Co.

After returning to the US he took a reserve positon in the Army in a counter-intel unit...later becoming credentialed as a Counterintel Agent.

He retired from the Army in the mid 90's (he called it the "Klinton-ista" period) and in the past few years worked as a security consultant for I dont know who or what they did...even as close as we were.

He collected and carried custom knives since the 60's.....he was an invaluable resource.................and a true, true friend.
 
But...as tough and grumbled as he was.....for the past 2 and 1/2 years he would babysit his 2 year old grandson.....and I was SHOCKED to see him playing cars on the floor with the little boy....

I dont cry much at all.....but it tore me up when his grandson asked to go and see "Papa'
 
Greg,

Always enjoyed talking with both you and Bill at the local shows - he was a true Warrior and will be missed. Rest In Peace.
 
Thank you Mike....I know he could be a bit of an antagonist and pain in the ass.....but he liked talking to you also.


God...the man could shoot a handgun! He never did any of the tradtional tactical stances or subscribed to any of that..nor did ever really shoot groups.....the pistol just came up and "bang"....he hit what he pointed at. I remember him doing that to a helpless Coke can at every bit of 80 yards with his HK P9s .45
 
I would like to say that it is people like him that has given me the opportunity and Honor to wear the uniform that I do today. I am an Army Nurse and take care of many Soldiers from WW2 to present. I work on a cardiac/medi surg. floor that is like a living history book. To listen to these people is exciting about the stories they tell and the REAL life from hooking up mules to artillery at Camp Bragg (now Fort Bragg) to current conflicts.

He will be missed and maybe not known to everyone, but his sacrifice and what he fought for still lives on today and from an Active Duty Soldier........ I am sorry for your loss.

May his knees remain in the breeze........

Airborne!!!!!!
 
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