4.6 inches closed isn't too big for me to carry, not at all, This is your first knife correct? So just some friendly advice, #1 check out your local knife laws I don't see your location so I don't know your laws but a lot of states have restrictions on blade length, so make sure your getting something legal to carry. #2 Your not used to carrying a knife so get something comfortable as you haft to get used to carrying them, If you get something to wide or heavy, It may end up as a paper weight because you feel it's too big , or it may take up too much of your pocket so you never carry it. Also what are you going to be using the knife for, There are thousands of options out there, hearing what you will be using the knife for will help in deciding what you need.