To whom it may concern...

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Aloha ALL,
First of all, let me thank some good knife bro’s for allowing me to get back online via “Satellite”…(You guys know who you are!)
Just a bit of a sitrep of sorts, because I really don’t know where to start:
Rewind to November of 2009. A major facility shuts down here causing a bump effect at my place of employ. They called it a rift, I call it a bunch of BS. A lot of less senior officers had to find jobs elsewhere, off island, etc because of it. Lost a bunch of great officers when this happened, but we gained a few good officers from the closed facility. One in particular, whom I will refer to as “TDK” turned out to be a knife freak like me. Fast forward to May of last year. TDK and I became close friends, yet he had a hard time, like most of the other officers who had enough seniority to stay at “my” facility, dealing with the change of scenery. After 19 years, he felt like a rookie. Long story short, he drank away his troubles which led to a 3rd DUI. Now he has no vehicle, no license…I got him enrolled in a substance abuse class which he has passed, and have been his only means of transportation to doctor appointments, court, wherever. He may have to do time…not good.I have been “carrying” TDK for sometime now, and sometimes the burden is heavy.He lives pretty far from me, so taking him about, juggling my family time, etc has not been easy. He almost died on me once as I rushed him to the ER…I have just been mentally exhausted.
A few days ago, one of my classmates during Basic Corrections Training passed away. A Sgt. Just a few weeks prior to her…cripes.
Daughter has a “boyfriend”…knew this day would come, but not so soon…especially not now. Got into a car accident last year as well, thanks to a student jay walkingin front of the car I was following…Ugh.

A lot of other dramas, but the bulk of it has been carrying TDK. Peers are like, “You STILL taking care of him? Why?” Answer is simple: He’d do it for me. Good heart this TDK has, and he would literally give you the shirt off his back if you asked.

So anyway, also wanted to thank folks for their emails regarding my knife designs and such. I got a few more going with Boker, and let me just say it now: “Surprise”. (You’ll see.)

Will try to “stay in touch”, I have been out of the loop for too long. Got a lot of catching up to do…not just within the knife world, but with some great knife broz as well. Missed you guys, catch ya later.

God bless and mahalo much!
 
You're a far, far better human being than a designer. Considering you're a groundbreaking designer whose work I've bought dozens of, that's saying something. Hoping for the best all around, great to see you back. Going back for a brother is something to be admired in every culture.
 
Kamusta Chad!

Good to hear from you and good on you as well for being a decent fellow to another human being. Looking forward to the new stuff as well. As for the not so pleasant stuff: "This too shall pass. . ."

Be well and safe!
 
Great to see you're still hanging out this side of the Veil.... :)

Sounds like life has been pretty tough. Continued prayers, my brother.
 
Good luck with TDK, Chad. All I can tell you is that I had to hit bottom before I was willing to make a change. Had anyone cushioned the fall, I probably would have died a long time ago.

You can carry the message. But you can't carry the alcoholic.
 
Daywalker (Chad),

I don't believe you and I have ever communicated directly. Read some of your stuff when I was on EDCforums. Got a few of your blades.

First, my condolences regarding your corrections buddy. Good luck with your daughter. I'm sure with you as a dad, she'll make good choices (crossing my fingers, anyway). Hope the car accident deal is done.

Regarding TDK, if he is looking at potential time, perhaps his sobriety efforts might help minimize/eliminate this via alternative sentencing options.

You may already be familiar with alternative sentencing strategies. If not, please feel free to contact me directly. If I can be of any free assistance, I'm at your service. Part of my background was in alternative sentencing.

Good luck with everything. Stay strong.

Very best regards,

risen
 
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My MotoGP bro, it's good to hear from you again. Sorry that it's been bumpy for you in recent times but I know you'll make it through. I hope that things can work out for your friend in the long run and that your help to him has made a difference.

As for the daughter's boyfriend, I can't help on that one. May the force be with you. ;)

Best regards from me and my Subcom.

Nate
 
Glad to hear from you KB! DW told me a bit of what was going on, and I think you are to be commended for what you are doing. Your daughter has a boyfriend, lol, mine just got engaged... major stressor right there.
Take care, Chad, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Terry
 
You are a man to be commended for what you are doing to help him out Amigo. We should all be lucky to have someone like you to help us out that way :thumbup:.
 
He Chad,

Been a long while no see.
I have been off-line for a while too due to financial/family/health issues.

I’m sorry to hear things ain’t going you would want them. Sorry for your co- buddies losses. Must have been a blow.
As for your daughter. The way your mindset is and raised her I wouldn’t worry to much. At a certain age you have to let go.. To severe approach might work counterclockwise…..
But I don’t know the dude ;) You did check out if he has a rap…?
Your buddy (TKD) with trouble could benefit from alternative ways as spoken before. People with this problem need strict and bizzy 24hours-programs for at least six months to keep them from hitting the bottle…However I agree on bld555…
Keep strong and hang in there brother.

Me myself after losing my father 11/2009 quick later my misses M. had major surgery march 2010 which was a close call. I lost my job and my health too. Took care of her after her surgery full-time and things are pickin’up for her . After that I had a stroke in august 2010 and next to that the specialists found other probs to take care off. Wend to GUCH special unit yesterday and waiting for hart fix up.

Most of the time I lurk and don’t post at the moment. I hope you and other buddies understand.

As I changed internet provider too you can contact me at mat888@upcmail.nl


Greets and God Bless you ALL Maarten
 
You the man Chad!

Keep doing those good things. The gifts you give must be coming back as gifts at knife designing!

I have a 5 month old daughter now and already dread the days of dating and driving! The wife and I joke that she cannot date until she is 30! I also tease I am going to feed her bad foods and make her very plump to discourage suitors, but it is only for laughs.

Take care of yourself and god bless!
Shane
 
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