I think I saw your post in the Traditional forum, about the Bear & Bull congress knife (nice find there :thumbup: ). I'm assuming that was carbon (non-stainless) steel, so it shouldn't be too much trouble on most stones. If most of your Bucks are 420HC, those shouldn't be much trouble either. Depending on how old your husband's grandfather's Buck is, it may be 440C (last used in early '80s, I believe). Some of those have trouble on Arkansas stones (like your Washita), but a decent SiC stone should handle it easily. Wet/dry sandpaper in SiC or aluminum oxide will also handle it well.
The big question mark in my mind is the 'carborundum' stones found cheaply online. If they were marketed or labelled just as 'carborundum', it's kind of hard to know their origin or quality. I wouldn't be surprised if many cheap stones marketed as 'carborundum' might actually be 'corundum' (aluminum oxide) instead. The two terms often get thrown around pretty loosely by vendors of inexpensive stones; cheap AlOx stones can often be notoriously bad. The SiC stones I've liked and used are from Norton (their 'Economy Knife & Tool' stone) and functionally identical stones from ACE Hardware. If using those, I've yet to be disappointed with any of them (I have 2 of the Norton, and 4 from ACE in various sizes); they've handled carbon steel and 420HC blades beautifully (I've also been using & carrying 420HC blades from Case & Buck, as well as 1095 and CV blades from Schrade USA and Case). I've always used the 'Fine' side of my SiC stones, which is ~320-grit or so; it's been plenty aggressive for rebevelling such blades, as well as leaving great, toothy working edges.
One thing to look out for, especially in sharpening very small blades as with your congress and similar knives: If the stones used for rebevelling are too coarse, that can often make it difficult to create clean edges on such small/thin-edged blades. I've always favored stones in a medium or finer grit for such knives; the 'Fine' side of the SiC stones I mentioned is about as coarse as I'd go, and I often use Fine or EF diamond hones for such jobs (600/1200, respectively). Even at such small grit, a diamond hone will still work very fast, and not leave the edge in a too-rough condition afterwards.
David