Under The Magnolia Tree.

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The weather here has been a relief from the 90's high humididity we've been having. Today was another one of those perfect mid 80's breezy days that make one wish summer would never leave. Karen was having a lunch with some friends, so Pearl the wonder corgi and I took a walk.

There's a nieborhood here thats kind of a swanky upscale place, called the Kentlands. It's laid out around the idea of the small town with a park in the middle, a large gazebo that a band can play in on summer evenings, and the old Kentlands mansion converted to a art center. On the lawn of the mansion is a magnolia tree that spreads out to form a perfect umbrella of shade scented with the lemon spice smell of magnolia blossoms. It seemed like a good place for me and the pooch to take a break. The nice thing about this magnolia is the spreading limbs at ground level make for a good bench in the shade.

Taking a seat on a low limb I packed my pipe and picked up a likely looking stick to whittle on while Pearl the wonder corgi took up a guard position looking like a pint size sphinx. I was having a good time smoking my pipe and whittling on a stick. Andy Wardens old knife was sharp, and the dry wood curled nicely.

I don't know how long I had been there, but I had tamped my pipe a few times. Looking down at my stick from under the brim of my ball cap, it was the sudden waging motion of Pearls black tail with the white splotch on the end that got my attention. Looking up, I saw a small boy staring at me.

"What are you doing with that?" he asked me pointing right at me.

I had to think to what he was reffering. At first I thought it must be my pipe. These days of anti smoking I've had small children see me with my pipe in my mouth and ask their parent what I was doing. I started to explain my pipe, but he interupted and pointed to my hand.

"No, that! Why do you have a knife?" he said pointing at the pocket knife.

I was then struck by a sad feeling. Here was a boy, that when I was growing up, would have a lusted after his first pocket knife if he did not already have one. Now instead he wanted to know why I had one. The question spoke volumes.

I explained that a pocket knife is a tool that comes in handy for all sorts of things like opening mail, packages, and sometimes having fun by just whittling. Then I had the inspiration of telling him another reason to carry a pocket knife is because we can. It took some explaining, but I think I got most of the idea through to him. I asked him if his dad carried a pocket knife. The young boy slowly shook his head no. Further conversation yielded the fact that his family did not go hiking or camping or fishing. It seemed that they had very little activity.

I closed the blade on the knife and let him hold it in his hand for a bit. He examined it with minute attention to every detail. Then I took the knife back and opened the blade. I handed it back to him and let him cut on a stick. He watched the wood chips fall and pronounced the knife as really cool. I had a hold on his wrist to guide him, and he liked the feel of the knife. I took it back and told him he should ask his dad to get him one when he gets old enough to join the boy scouts. And maybe ask for a Daisy Red Rider for his birthday.

"Whats that?" he asked.

Again a feeling of mixed shock and saddness at a young American boy not having or lusting after a Daisy BB gun. I thought it was a right of passage to get that first pocket knife and Red Rider. I told him all about my first BB gun and the adventures of roaming through the woods, shooting offending pine cones, and rougue tin cans.

To his credit, he asked alot of questions, and I gave him the best answears I could. He seemed a bright kid, but kind of sheltered. I let him whittle a bit more with the knife under close guidence. I've yet to see a kid that did not like pocket knives, and he was no exeption, he just had not known it till then.

We parted company, and he said he was going to ask his dad for a pocket knife. I don't know what will happen, but I wish him well in his new quest.
 
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That's really sad. I do believe that the we should protect the things that we feel important. Otherwise, we will end up losing in it in a few years. I just can't believe how fast this is all taking place though. It seems that the cellphone is the new pocket knife of this generation.
 
so sad :( ""rant on"" my favorite teacher MR Willis told me once that no longer was America a nation of patriots, but a land of lemmings. In our sad attempts to "improve" ourselves we have strayed so far from the ways of our grandfathers, as the first Americans they built this land through sweat and blood and tears, and i truly believe that they would be horrible ashamed to see what we are doing with our birth right.
all we can do is lead by example and try to teach those that come after us that they need not have a "reason" to have a gun or a knife, the very things on which this country was built, it is there RIGHT paid for in the blood of great men both known and unknown, who risked it all to make this country great! ""rant off""
 
I'm glad you were there for that boy Jackknife. I hope his dad has an open mind and grants his wish.

I'm saddened that he didn't pull out his own pocket knife to show you. We've lost so many of the traditions that made growing up an adventure.

Gary
 
So typical of today's society, If you had a Game Boy in your hands instead of the knife, that kid would have shown you a few tricks. We are losing the traditional values to a techno based world. Tis sad.
 
I'm personally just happy to hear a kid is outside in a park instead of in the house playing video games. Knife? BB gun? where do you put the batteries in those things?
 
So typical of today's society

It is typical. But the real problem here is that the majority of Americans would rather be fat and lazy than get out and do something. No one wants to question anything or to learn anything.

We are losing the traditional values to a techno based world. Tis sad.

The whole "sheeple" issue around here isn't politics, it's not some liberal phenomenon. It's because 99% of the population doesn't realize the usefullness of a simple tool. Why use a knife when a ballpoint pen will open that box just as easily? Why use that hammer when you can pound that nail in with your forehead?

I don't see a problem with technology, pre se. Remember, it's technology that's brought us all together here, and it's technology that's keeping this industry alive. High quality cutlery would be a difficult thing to find for a lot of us if it weren't for this little internet thing.

What I have a problem with are people with the attitude that technology will fix everything. Eventually technology will die and a lot of our society will die with it because what happens when technology can't fix what it has created? When that happens, a lot of people won't be able to feed themselves.

I sat down by the creek in my backyard yesterday afternoon listening to my iPod and whittling away at a stick with a beautiful old Boker stockman. The world isn't such a bad place if you just let yourself relax and not worry about answering the cellphone on the first ring or whatever.

Jackknife, as always, a wonderful story. And I think the kid will be ok. Maybe his father won't get him that pocket knife, but you showed him that it isn't something to be afraid of. Someday if the interest is still there he'll pick one up for himself. A lot of things may have changed in his life for better or worse in the meantime but we all grow up and eventually find our place and home. Someday maybe he'll be sitting in your place teaching another little kid about knives.

Or maybe not. But we'll all be ok if we just let ourselves be.
 
"Why use a knife when a ballpoint pen will open that box just as easily? Why use that hammer when you can pound that nail in with your forehead" haahahaha..I want this on a TShirt!!

Jackknife..another classic!! Thanks
 
so sad :( ""rant on"" my favorite teacher MR Willis told me once that no longer was America a nation of patriots, but a land of lemmings. In our sad attempts to "improve" ourselves we have strayed so far from the ways of our grandfathers, as the first Americans they built this land through sweat and blood and tears, and i truly believe that they would be horrible ashamed to see what we are doing with our birth right.
all we can do is lead by example and try to teach those that come after us that they need not have a "reason" to have a gun or a knife, the very things on which this country was built, it is there RIGHT paid for in the blood of great men both known and unknown, who risked it all to make this country great! ""rant off""


Amen Brother!!!! I am only 22 and it dismays me to see how far gone my peers are from ideals that I thought were as American as apple pie and baseball. I honestly feel sorry for children growing up nowadays.
 
Here was a boy, that when I was growing up, would have a lusted after his first pocket knife if he did not already have one. Now instead he wanted to know why I had one. The question spoke volumes.

Thinking back, I had every reason to be THAT KID. I grew up in an upper-middle class neighborhood in South Florida, a good bit removed from the "outdoors life" (unless you count all the golf that was played in the area). My dad was a dentist and we had a pool and air conditioning and color TV.

BUT ...... to my parents' credit, I wasn't that kid.

They didn't shelter or over-protect me. I DID have a BB gun (a Red Rider at first, later some more powerful "big kid" air rifles) and numerous pocketknives. I had slingshots from the time I was old enough to pull back the rubber sling. My mom actually used to drive me and some friends to an illegal dump on the outskirts of town so we could shoot our BB guns! If we happened to accidentally hit an old beer bottle or the screen of a TV someone had pitched, so be it. :D Mom and Dad let me skin my knees, cut my fingers, cut my feet on barnacles while swimming in the river (remember, we had a pool right there at home -- but swimming in the mighty Loxahatchee was much more adventurous).

Having one grandfather who grew up in Savannah, Ga. hunting and fishing, and another who grew up in Kentucky ..... both into cool stuff like knives and guns and fishing ...... helped, I suppose. But Mom and Dad could have corralled me in a lot more than they did.

I don't know, maybe today's sally, soft-bellied kids really are an inevitable product of the times. But I'd like to think there are at least SOME kids out there learning all the right things because their parents let 'em do the "wrong" things from time to time. I'm going to a family reunion soon. I'll have to gauge my little nephews, both around 10 or 11 years old. Might have to bring a couple extra pocketknives and, if I end up losing them to the little guys in, say, a hand of blackjack 21 or something, so be it. Everyone needs an uncle like me!
 
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You did a good thing, sadly, the parents might start the witch hunt for the "pipe smoking knife wielding maniac with the attack dog". Go about an hour north of you, and its a whole 'nother world, as I'm sure you well know.
 
You did a good thing, sadly, the parents might start the witch hunt for the "pipe smoking knife wielding maniac with the attack dog".

:D

Hopefully not, but all too probable in our brave new world.

On the other hand, the parents might not believe that there could possibly be someone so non politically correct in the world. Between the attack corgi (vicious breed) drug addled (evil tobacco) assault weapon wielding (huge machete or sword, possibly a switchblade) and extolling the virtues of the boy scouts, who are so non-pc that it does not bear repeating here even in the folksy forum, it is likely that the parents thought that the child met Satan himself.
:rolleyes: :D
 
It really is sad,seems like not to many fokes enjoy or understand the enjoyment to be had in the simple stuff anymore, like a good pocket knife and a walk through the woods,or a plinking session with the .22. Beats reality tv in my book.
 
It really is sad,seems like not to many fokes enjoy or understand the enjoyment to be had in the simple stuff anymore, like a good pocket knife and a walk through the woods,or a plinking session with the .22. Beats reality tv in my book.

Getting a root cannal beats reality tv!:barf:
 
Here's what's going on up here...

Not too long ago we were having a garage sale at my house. An older gentleman with a small boy showed up and were rummaging through the junk.
I picked up an old die-cast model of a battle tank and handed it to the boy. The older man , who was his grandfather , told me he couldn't have it. His mother did not allow him to play with "war toys".

I just said "too bad" , the grandfather sighed and said "yeah I know".

I don't think that boy will ever get a pocket knife.....
 
My little brothers friends mother told my mother that he shouldn't have a BB gun. ??????????? He didn't even have it at his friends house.
 
Nice story.

Hopefully won't get twisted to some sicko in the park had a knife and touched me.
 
What!?!?!? You mean a poor innocent child was away from adult supervision long enough to talk to a stranger? Let alone one with a knife! (See I told you it was dangerous!) Wasn't an "Amber Alert" issued when the mother noticed little Johnny wasn't holding onto her apron strings any longer?

Sorry, I'm just getting incredibly tired of our modern society.

-- Sam
 
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