In my business over the last 23 years, I have used every conceivable form of shipping known to man and can honestly say that UPS , USPS, and Fed Ex are only as good as the particular clerk, driver, window attendant, etc, that is handling your parcel at the time your package passes through. I have had great luck, good luck and bad luck with all of them. The best way to deal with them is:
1. Proper packaging don't put a $500.00 blade in a toliet paper tube and expect it to get to the destination.
2. Proper identification and Labeling of same. I have gotten packages that even I couldn't decifer as to whom they were to, and I was the recipient!
3. Insurance, Insurance, Insurance!!!
4. Traceability / confirmation of delivery.
Every shipper has it. I still get package of sizeable value without any form of tracking, or for that matter even a signiture required.
That's about the best any of us can do. With as many people inputting their experiences as the forum attracts, your guaranteed to be terrified next time you are expecting or shipping a package of your next treasure!!
I always try to find out if the recipient has a preferred method of shipping and will accommodate them with nearly ANY method they prefer. I have to draw the line on Camel caravan though..... Those camels are just plan NASTY!!!
Oh, and did I remember to mention, INSURANCE!!!