" … Whatever steel files are made of, it is way more aggressive on my tools than the 1018 I tried last time. …"
That's because the file is hardened to Rc 65 or more, and the 1018 was probably Rc 40 or less.
If you weren't really careful in grinding the bevels, you probably ruined the temper and it will have soft spots on the edge.
Generally, people anneal the file, grind the shape, then re-harden and re-temper it for RC 60. This is covered in the stickys and in past threads titled "making a file knife".
The procedure for making a file knife is pretty basic:
1)Heat the file to dull red and let cool slowly in vermiculite or ashes overnight. Then you should be able to saw/drill/grind/file/sand the blade.
2) Once shaped and beveled, leave the edge about half the thickness of a dime.
3) It is now ready for HT. Heat to non-magnetic, then a tad higher ( around 1475-1500°F), then quenched in a gallon of 130°F canola oil.
4) After the hardening, it is immediately tempered at 450°F , twice for an hour each, with cooling to room temp between the tempers ( just run the tap water over it for 60 seconds).
Depending on how good your simple HT was (and what the file was made of), the final hardness should be between Rc 60 and RC62.
With a HT oven, the hardness would be Rc62 to Rc63.