Hi nightfall, as a L.E.O. i have some advice. First if u should carry a OC spray as a first line defense and a knife as a second line of defence (lethal confrontation/rape). Because u are a women, neck knife's are great but u will need too have the right posture and dress code for it , meaning no too tight shirts

, if u go for a neck knife and it won't "print" u can carry it on almost everything , it's ambidextrous so even someone grabbing one of your arms u can still draw the knife with the other one! Carry the OC spray front left pocket, and use your right hand to twarth grabbing attempts (if u are right handed). NEVER EVER let anyone touch u without your approval, if touched give a VERY firm VERBAL response! So VERBAL even a drunk will understand, and every witness around u for a mile has heard u screaming STOP, NO, DON't TOUCH ME, STOP ! If he persist either give him a second warning or go for your OC spray, spray till he's down and starts to vomit or flees the scene in panic. If u can't reach the OC, or it fails and u feel that your life is in danger (and rape is included as a life threatening situation) draw your knife and start slashing at his vunerable parts, meaning the eyes, throat, neck, abdomen, male parts, etc. Don't try to scare him, but HURT him, if u been forced to draw the knife it is a life and death situation. You HAVE to survive, don't try to win the fight , try not to loose the fight ! Keep giving him deep slashes in his face, eyes and neck area ( great identification later) and keep doing it until he realises that he has lost use of his eyesight or breathing or starts to feel dizzy because of massive bloodloss. Don't stab him with a narrow spike-type knife , u can stab someone a lot before they stop and realise they got stabbed. They will die later but won't realise it for a while because of the nature of the puncture wound. Try to make lots of deep bloody cuts ( it isn't as life threatening later, and it has beter psychological effect). And don't stop untill he's down because u feel sorry for him, he's the one who iniciated the attack. Don't give men "female type" communication especially when drunk. Give them MALE verbal warnings. Fight like a lioness, u owe it to yourself and your loved ones. U should always give men clear and easy to understand signals. U should be a kitten when treated good and a wild ferral cat when messed with.
Stay safe
