C'mon, David- tell us what you really think!

You bring up some very salient points that I've thought myself, and your delivery of said points is refreshingly straight up:thumbup:.
However, people do like what they like, and if a knife maker likes to carry a factory knife, I'm not going to hold them to a higher standard when it comes to what they carry than I would hold myself, being a 'collector' of custom knives. I think, using the logic you've presented, it's just as weak to collect custom knives, and choose not to ever carry or use one. But like I said, people like what they like and I'm not one to judge

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I guess I don't like beating around the bush!
I own the first fly rod Ray Cover made. I also picked a new one from him at Blade, a 2 weight, and am itching to give it a try. It was priced at $1500. If Ray said this rod was excellent for smaller trout in the Missouri streams (where I do most of my fly fishing) but he himself fished with a cheapo fly rod from WalMart, how much confidence would I have that my new and expensive fly rod was worth the price? (It's a trade, but the principle still applies.) Because Ray fishes with his own rods I know it's a square deal.
Back around 20 years ago in the "what do you carry" column in Blade I read in the same issue that two very prominent makers, one an ABS MS and the other one of the greatest knifemakers known, carried low end factory knives. It certainly didn't say much for their work! At that time the forging vs. grinding wars were in full swing, especially in Blade, and hearing that a Mastersmith, whose work had been shown off in the "war", carried a couple of factory folders (and they weren't collaborations) showed me that the ABS was just BS and that that maker was just using it to make sales. It certainly didn't say he believed in his own words and his own knives! I've softened up in my thoughts on the ABS, but I still don't particularly respect that maker.
That's not to say that Spyderco, Buck, Kershaw and the other factories produce poor quality knives. But it does tell people outside our little custom knife universe that we are full of malarky when we ask our prices and won't even carry what we make. Maybe some makers don't think they need new customers because they are backordered by the same group of buyers they've had for years, but if we don't grow the customer base we stagnate, and that in turn becomes a negative growth.
I think Bruce Bump's carry knife is an excellent example of a maker carrying his own work. We all know Bruce makes outstanding upper end damascus pieces for the most part, and his pocket knife is a far cry from one of them. However, it's a serious working knife and more importantly it's one he made himself. He can tell people that it's a basic working knife but his high end pieces are made to the same standards. And it would say volumes to me as a maker who also adds a knife to his personal collection now and then, even if I never carried it.
I hold makers to a different standard than collectors. Collectors have a variety of knives to choose from, but makers only make their own "brand". I realize that some makers don't give a fat rat's behind, and neither do some collectors, but others do.
And Don, are you trying to say that I'm pathetic for believing in my own work enough to actually carry one? I'm glad your family has your knives to use. Seems if you have the time for them, you could squeeze in a knife for yourself. You're the one who is responsible for promoting your own work, not your family. I have orders and shows myself, and I've managed to make my wife a knife now and then, and also for myself.
The same applies to you, Cliff. I don't buy this "I'm too busy to make a knife for myself" line. It's bogus. I could easily take from your first statement that you only care about the money, but not about your product. I wouldn't have thought that true before, but . . . I could take from your second statement that you are in fact not as polite as you said you'd like to be.
I have bills to pay and family obligations like everyone else, but I still manage to promote what I do, and that includes carrying what I make.
David