Cobalt
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First VTW and now Xanax??
C'mon guys, Let's enjoy the forum and not worry about stuff. Truth is the mods are pretty liberal around here and only go off when someone is being a jerk or antagonistic(kinda the same thing). You should make this the place where you enjoy reading stuff, not getting into fights. REAL LIFE is tough enough with your daily responsibilities, no need to make this place like that, when we all have a common interest and think so much alike for the most part.
Look at it this way. It is very difficult to discern the meaning of typed words. I have written things n the past on email or PM, that sounded nasty, yet I did not mean it as such. The problem is that much of what we write is open to interpretation and sometimes we miss responses much more s then when we talk.
I'd hate to see VTW and Xanax go over something so trivial and not even worth argueing over. If your pissed sometimes it's best to walk away for a bit and come back once you have cooled off.
The mods in our forums do an excellent job and they are Human so they will make mistakes like anyone else. I once had an issue with one of the Mods on another subforum here, I PM'd him, he PM'd me back. We both agreed we got a little hot over nothing and shook webhands and all is good. :thumbup: But we never made it public. When you slap someones face in public you are not likely to ever make up or be friends. You have just embarrased them, undermined them, put them down in front of a public and now even if you are right, you will not win because you have backed them into a corner. Always leave people a way out to save face and honor. You will make more friends this way than enemies.
anyway, my two cents.
C'mon guys, Let's enjoy the forum and not worry about stuff. Truth is the mods are pretty liberal around here and only go off when someone is being a jerk or antagonistic(kinda the same thing). You should make this the place where you enjoy reading stuff, not getting into fights. REAL LIFE is tough enough with your daily responsibilities, no need to make this place like that, when we all have a common interest and think so much alike for the most part.
Look at it this way. It is very difficult to discern the meaning of typed words. I have written things n the past on email or PM, that sounded nasty, yet I did not mean it as such. The problem is that much of what we write is open to interpretation and sometimes we miss responses much more s then when we talk.
I'd hate to see VTW and Xanax go over something so trivial and not even worth argueing over. If your pissed sometimes it's best to walk away for a bit and come back once you have cooled off.
The mods in our forums do an excellent job and they are Human so they will make mistakes like anyone else. I once had an issue with one of the Mods on another subforum here, I PM'd him, he PM'd me back. We both agreed we got a little hot over nothing and shook webhands and all is good. :thumbup: But we never made it public. When you slap someones face in public you are not likely to ever make up or be friends. You have just embarrased them, undermined them, put them down in front of a public and now even if you are right, you will not win because you have backed them into a corner. Always leave people a way out to save face and honor. You will make more friends this way than enemies.
anyway, my two cents.
I just know everyone will cool down and be happy again. I also want to give a huge SHOUT-OUT to all the Mods cause I know we can be a handful and you keep us grounded:thumbup: 
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