How does patina form? Just through time and use. Pick a knife and just carry it every day. If you're always changing the knife you carry it'll take years of time to look like some of the old timers you see here. Just use it and don't worry about what it looks like. The steel will react to it's environment however it wishes - allow it to and over time it'll darken and take on that aged look you see in old knives. The patina rarely looks even as it grows, it's mottled and changes with time. Over a long time it grows to a more even darkness.
My 77 Barlow has turned nearly black in the areas exposed to perspiration in the pocket. This knife has had a solid year of pocket time 18 hours a day every day. It's used for everything from food to opening boxes, etc etc. It lives in my front pocket. It's in my pocket every waking moment of the day.
The blade of course is exposed to assorted food prep but the spine never has been exposed to anything food related. The spine's coloring has formed just from exposure in the pocket to perspiration and general handling in use. It's as black as the scales themselves (the liners are nickel silver). I've not helped along any part of the process with this knife, I've just carried it and used it.
You'll notice the blade is very dark where exposed outside the handle. It's lighter and less patina'd where it rests within the handle. I'm assuming it's probably perspiration that does this. I actually don't perspire heavily and I live in the high desert, so it's very dry here - humidity has no part in this knife's aging process (you have to try hard to get things to rust here). In summary I've done nothing to speed or retard the patina. I've just used it for the tasks I needed it for. I don't really cut much fruit or potatoes with it, though I have used it to a limited extent on such things. If messy I rinse it off or wipe it down, but I don't abuse it nor baby it. I've completely let is do it's own thing. The dark areas are a very dark gray - almost black. Spots appear and disappear over time also.