Some of my oldest modern folders, and those I've used the most, have this kind of lock. It's never caused me any problems.
I've got an old Endura that I still carry almost every day in my left pocket, it has developed a bit of blade play through the years but that's it (the handle is FRN with no liners, some of the play might just be handle flex). I've used my Manix and Mini Manix a lot, with zero issues. Same goes for an old (VG-1, pre-Tri Ad) CS Voyager and a few other knives. Lots of use, no problems.
Most Spyderco lockbacks have a Boye dent just for a bit extra safety. My Manix, Mini Manix and old Chinook don't have it and they work just fine.
Bo-Ri-Do, if you don't like it that's reason enough not to buy any knives with that sort of lock. It doesn't matter whether there's a safety concern or not. Maybe something else might work better for you, like a framelock or even a balisong (no lock to disengage on those!).