I came from a family that was totally religious, and was immersed into it from birth. You had to be there to appreciate it. Sunday services started at 7:30 am. for the men, and the last service ended at 9 pm. There was daily school for the children, not to mention mid-week services on Wednesday afternoons, and home services 1 or 2 nights per week, where my Dad would read to us from the Bible and quiz us. Saturdays were for working painting, logging and cutting firewood, collecting papers, or other Church fund-raising activities. Do the math and I was easily attending almost a dozen religious meeting of one kind or another every week.
By the time I was 18 and ready to move out I was so constrained and subsequently rebellious that I went as far and as fast as possible in the other direction, something which was a great disappointment to my father while he was alive, and to my mother now. I was refocused on the basics: I wanted a woman or three, a case of Mickey's Wide Mouths, a carton of Kools, a baggie of killer bud, and enough dedicated time with all of them to really find out about myself! (-:
The one thing I learned from that experience is that the quickest way to drive someone to extreme behavior is to subject then to extreme behavior to begin with. My kids have been treated far more moderately and have exhibited none of the knee-jerk super rebelliousness that I did.
In the end, after many years and getting married, I came back a bit towards the middle and stabilized. I have my own personal relationship with God, and try to be as Christian as possible in my dealings with everyone and in raising my family. It seems to have worked for me. If I am not perceived to be as "Holy" as my brother and friends who stayed in the Church, then so be it. I am comfortable in my own skin, and more than willing to stand up for what I have done that I think was right and repent for the things I know I have done wrong. I don't think you can ask more of anyone. (Or go ahead and ask away, and get told where to put it! (-

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As my Dad used to be so fond of saying, "Everybody dances, everybody pays", and I think he was absolutely right.
Regards,
Norm