Why I Asked Nasty To Help And Be A Mod

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A forumite wrote to me recently and told me a few uncomfortable truths. I'm sure he was more comfortable with them than I; when it's your turn to hear the truth about yourself and to loose a little hide, you generally don't eat a donut at the same time.

Some moderators you never know what they believe. They've intentionaly removed that portion of themselves they figure would divide people on the forum to one side or another. IF you think about it, it's impossible to do. But they try, and some of them are great. Bill was Great.

I have opinions. You don't win anything agreeing with me, and I don't flatten the tires of those who disagree. I've withdrawn some from politics, and will make other modifications as I go. It's always possible, and probable, that what I see as an Opinion some one else might see as Overbearing.

The forumite suggested Nasty might have a hard time. Other mods haven't lasted forever, leaving for one reason or another, but I was taken aback with the idea that working with me would be hard. Who, me?

I thought about this, and instead of thinking in terms of a debit, instinctively, without a doubt in my heart saw a tremendous positive.

I asked Nasty to be a mod because he's smart. I asked because he'll grapple for the truth just like me, and take the consequences if it hurts. I knew he'd never be a yes man, and was as capable of hurting himself as me. Nasty is a guy who knows getting knocked down by a slug to the jaw is not the test of a man at all. It is getting up. I knew Nasty could fix stuff, sweep rubbish out, without throwing away what was good. He told me once we were sides of the same coin. If there's any truth to that, it is because I'll take what I have to to find the truth.

If I make a mistake, the forum has Nasty. If Nasty has faults,the forum has me. If I am overbearing, you have Yangdu. Yangdu and Nasty are both tough opinionated strong people. I'm repeating myself, well, it bears repeating; the forum has three people who will fix stuff where ever it needs fixing.



munk
 
It's got to be tough to at once be yourself and yet take everyone else's feelings/needs/issues/pet peeves/dislikes/likes/etc into consideration. I thought about this after Yvsa and Howard stepped down and before Nasty signed on.

I guess the easiest thing as a mod would be to just shut yourself down completely from participating until moderating was needed.

However, it would also be the worst thing possible for the forum. There's more to moderating than just keeping the peace---it's also about staying the course.

I think the 3 mods set up is going to function very well with you three at the helm:thumbup:
 
Especially when they are as independent, smart, and hopeful as Yangdu and munk, and as Nasty as Nasty.




munk
 
This ends all apology threads from me for a while, perhaps eternity. Does anyone remember those memos always being sent from the High School Principal, or the office or yard manager at work? I do. A never ending stream of them. I didn't think I'd ever be one of those pathetic memo writers but here you are. So, I'm sorry I'm sorry. That is to say, I'm sorry you read this, I mean, any discomfort is clearly my fault, and did I remind you of that time when I forgot to say I was sorry? Awful sorry about that. I mean...

...Well; that's a fine how-you-do. Was that neccesary? How can I can say I'm sorry with a 25" AK chiruwa khuk embeded in my forehead? Damn. Life Is Cheap Out Here In The Brazos....






munk out
 
I'm sorry your Aunt died
I'm sorry the Mayor lied,
and that time in San Franscisco
I warned you I hate disco

I'm sorry for the dirty lie
the raise that went to the other guy
sorry that Seagull shat on your car
that your dream is just too far
sorry you broke you leg
your momma's plate,
and the Easter Egg
Sorry for that time in Jail
you got beat, the living hell
almost drove you insane
at least you never pulled the train

Sorry for the leaking oil
the fruit on the shelf just had to spoil
sorry for the years of work
wasted on that stupid jerk
sorry there is no ice nine
no cure for cancer
and the wasted time
sorry for the dirty clothes
that time you fell
the bloody nose
sorry for the TV's out
that's all that your allowed
this broken nest that you fouled
the boom box is too damn loud

I'm sorry for the constant itchen
for the new car, that life is bitchen
not enough sex and the water's bad
not any better than what your father had

....

to be continued by any who would


munk
 
I'm sorry that she broke your heart
took all of it, tore it apart
it must have just been a loan,
she even took the silly phone

I'm sorry your dog went and hid
chewed your shoes and bit Sid
He never was a graceful sort
just three legs and full of worts

I'm sorry a gallon of gas costs 3 bucks
that jobs are gone, we're out of luck
at least you have your khukuris
the ones Duck left to your misery





munk
 
Moved...it was a sorry post.

;):)

Actually, I hit the wrong button. It'll serve here as well as there.
<sorry mode off>
 
LMAO Wrong button...heh,heh,heh! Seriously sounds like some 60's cafe shop (heavy smoke near ceiling) poetry. Rock on, Munk!
 
I'm sorry that you moved my thread
it's the death of sorrows, they are dead
no more will I count my steps
or worry about your precious reps




munk
 
Man that poem is too personal to be added to Anything I added would just take something away from it . There is a lot of truth/s (sp) in it .
 
Add away; this is the last apology thread.

I'm sorry you spurn the shotgun blast
so imperfect is it's cast
better for you the snipers gun
from deep cover, and then you run.

munk
 
I'm sorry Munk's still beatin' up on himself for some percieved sin that I'm utterly clueless to. (Sheesh! how far out of the loop am I?!)

But I'm glad he picked Nasty as a mod, although my logic is a little simpler. I remember the first time someone mentioned it he didn't want the job. I consider that to be a good sign. I feel that most form of leadership or power are best held by people who don't seek it, but can still recnognize a job that has to be done.

FWIW, I think this forum is well led, although I'm gonna miss Munks opinions on a few topics. I like to hear everyone's opinions around here, and his is one of the opinions I most enjoy considering, whether I ultimately agree or not.
 
I'm sorry that you walk alone
With burdened back and many a groan,
A sigh, a sob, a "woe is me"
But let it go, we're family
As you can see...
 
Take the good ,

cause there will be some bad .

Take the happy

cause there will be some sad .

Enjoy your friends ,

be they few or many .

Show gladness in what you have ,

or you won,t be getting any .
 
Roses are red,
Viloets are blue.
munks a mod and I am too
Ballpeen hammers are forever.

It don't rhyme...wanna make a point of it?
 
No, I've enough points already. Now, what do I do with all these points? I was told you could cash them in. I fear I've collected them for nothing.


munk
 
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