I need help. I'm trying to sharpen a cold steel knife, well actually any knife, but I'm having trouble withe the reference plate. At some angles if I'm flat I risk marring the face of the blade. And I don't know if I'm going too steep. Because I have s35vn steel, I want to sharpen to 13 degrees, I merely use my knives for cutting paper cutting boxes and whittling wood. I have some knives that are for durability. I don't know if I'm using too much pressure or not. Images would be the most helpful as I have autism. And I have a hard time imagining words. Please help.