I was just gonna congratulate you and wish you good luck with a non entry comment till I finished reading your op, my Father In Law eventually died of colon cancer, he had a full colostomy with the bag and all, I never saw a man go from being strong and independent to such depths of depression and becoming so dependent on his family.
In the end things started looking up as it often does for the victims of such advanced stages of cancer, thru reverse the colostomy at his request and he got 3 more years, he got to see his grandaughter and see a few more Christmases.
Having the colostomy reversed gave him back some of his dignity but when the cancer advanced he got worse quick. In the end he was kept comfortable with meds but they zoned him out so much he rarely knew who anybody was.
I'll never forget the day he passed it was a Friday the 13th the day before my birthday and the day we closed on our newly built house.
Folks, ask your parents and siblings about a family history of cancer and get checked out regularly, really detection can save your life.
Congratulations on the 10 year anniversary and good luck to everyone else.
BTW, I don't have a Becker yet so this would be a great opportunity to get one, I'm in thanks.